How would you feel in this situation?

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Tonight my boyfriend is going to a party with his friends, possibly getting drunk, which im fine with, however he has this ex girlfriend, they dated for about 3 months a couple years ago but he was in love with her for ages before they dated and she broke up with him.
I don't really like her very much, because she's a complete bitch to most of my friends...
He called me last night to ask if it's okay if he lets her sleep at his after the party since she wouldn't be able to get home. I said it was okay, but i feel a little weird about it, since he was in LOVE with her, and he said she'd be sleeping on the bed, and he'll sleep on the couch...Is it still okay?

If this was a boyfriend/girlfriend doing the same to you, how would you feel about it?

I wouldn't really care, they can do what they want 7
I'd be bothered but I wouldn't tell them that 11
I wouldn't like it at all 60
Other opinion (comment) 9
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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    10 years ago

    I honestly think he's hoping for something to happen with her. Why aren't you going?

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  • dinz
    10 years ago

    Yeah and why don't you head over and cook them both breakfast in the morning.

    Are you kidding me?! He could of called a taxi to take her home.

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    • sickness
      10 years ago

      I didn't need to read any other comments besides yours because you nailed it! Nice work.

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    • myboyfriendsbitch
      10 years ago

      Them kids don't have that kind of money!

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  • Hottigene
    10 years ago

    Why is he still hanging out with her since hes got you that doesnt sound Good also if she doesnt have a ride home why dont she Call a Taxi to get Home.

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  • plum6
    10 years ago

    I guess it's understandable that you feel that it's annoying or even a threat to your relationship but I guess you should just try to get over it and let it go. Even though you would probably want to forbid him to go making a big issue about this would be very annoying to him and not really fair. Most likely he did not invite or initiate them meeting but it just happened. You don't wanna be the over-obsessive GF that gets upset over this..

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  • GuessWho
    10 years ago

    It's normal to be worried, but I think it's okay since he is being honest with you and did call you up to check.

    If he wanted to cheat on you, he would have just taken her home and banged her without telling you anything.

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  • Unimportant
    10 years ago

    I think if you trust him enough, you can let her stay. And I think you are an awesome person if you can do that.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      Yeah, she stayed. It ended up not being such a big deal

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  • yu-gi-ohChampion25
    8 years ago

    really nervous.

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  • spankyscott
    8 years ago

    I would never agree to that sort of carry on? I also would pick the lazy cow up an drop her off somewhere??

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    • anonymousbitchhh
      8 years ago

      i spit out my drink

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  • BaileyXoXoSaporta
    10 years ago

    I would pick the bitch up personally, and give her a lift home.

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  • ccjigsaw
    10 years ago

    Id be over at his house staying over to make sure nothing went down. Trust is nice and all, but so is having piece of mind. Snuggling up with your boyfriend on the cough in that situation wouldn't hurt anyone. A little bit of jealousy can be cute

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    Why are you with someone who still socializes with his ex girlfriend?

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  • yesnomaybeso
    10 years ago

    I'd freak out.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    10 years ago

    Why did you say you were ok with it when it's obvious from this post that you're not?
    Anyway I would definitely not be ok with this, why does she specifially have to go to his house, does she not have other friends?
    Be honest about your feelings next time, I don't want to sound stero-typical but some men aren't as good as women at picking up on the deeper meanings of other people's words.

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  • [email protected]
    10 years ago

    Shoot em both in the fuckin head.

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