How would you feel if a girl asked you to stop wearing jewelerry?

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A guy I recently met and would like to see again wears a thin gold chain around his next. While it doesn't bother me seeing it, it makes me feel comfortable if I was to get in contact with it. I guess you could say I have a phobia. I just don't like the feeling of it, makes me feel uncomfortable.

Anyway, how would you feel if a girl asked you to stop wearing your chain? I understand that one should accept people the way they are and not try and change them, but.... It's just that it makes me feel uncomfortable.

Also, what would be the best way to bring this up, if at all?

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    This guy shouldn't have to change himself for you. I'm sure there are plenty of other chicks who will take him as he is. Get over it!

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  • Darkoil
    9 years ago

    If you want him to stop wearing it simply ask him casually why he wears a woman's necklace, he'll reply it's a man's, you say alright but look unconvinced, next time you see him I'm sure he will have taken it off.

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    • [Old Memory]
      9 years ago

      i don't know if you meant that to be funny but it is :D

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    First of all, your spelling and grammar is terrible. Second of all, a phobia of a thin gold chain? You met this guy and want to see him again and you already want to tell him not to wear his chain? I would suggest you start learning to accept that not everyone lives to improve your level of comfort. Get over it.

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  • gashlover
    9 years ago

    you can make a deal with him. tell him you'll deep throat him at least once a day and swallow his load if he quits wearing it.

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    • davesumba
      9 years ago

      Sounds like a fair compromise. If you want a man to lose his self respect, then the woman should as well.

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago

    I used to wear this set of Amber rings I got and my gf hated them. Said they were gaudy and ugly and that she didn't want me wearing them. It pissed me off at first then I realized she was looking out for me and that wye were probably a bit too much. But a chain? Is he one of those dumb ass wanna be gangsters that would shit his pants if someone pulled a real gun on him? Because if so, ur gonna have a hard time getting it off of him. He will probably compare it to u taking his cock off lol.

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  • reminiscent
    9 years ago

    I never heard of this phobia...if it doesnt bother you seeing it why tell him to stop? When it comes to cuddle time just ask him to take it off then explaining you dont like the feel of it....but he can still wear it out.

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!
    9 years ago

    I never wear jewelry. You know being a man and all but some for feminine boys take a shine to sparkly jewelry. If this boy won't respect your phobia then find a man who will.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    I've had a number of girls I was interested in, suggest that if I shaved my beard we could be together. This was a cultural thing, not personal preference, by the way, but I wouldn't do it. A chain, probably not a problem, but I can't imagine that conversation.

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  • wistfulmaiden
    9 years ago

    I have a similar dislike for men wearing jewelry. One chain wouldn't bother me but anything more--bracelets, multiple rings ect--turns me off. I think I subconsciously think the guy spends a lot of money on himself so he wont spend as much on me... terrible I know!
    I honestly don't know fi you should mention it or not. If you do, I wouldn't ask him to stop wearing it, maybe just remove it when youre intimate so you don't feel it against you.

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    • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
      9 years ago

      "heres a 5 dollar coupon for the sears jewelry counter, merry Christmas sweetie"

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      • wistfulmaiden
        9 years ago

        Hey ! I used to work at Sears jewelry...youre right, it was shit quality :D

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    you are starting early you just met

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    Instead of trying to change him, you should try to figure out why you have a phobia of a gold chain. Is it because it looks feminine to you and it bothers you that he is wearing an item geared towards the opposite sex?

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