How to overcome my shyness with girls ??

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I don't know why i'm extremely shy when i'm talking to any girl, i just get very nervous and i cant handle the conversation very well, i talk in a weird way end up embarrassing myself in front of her, i just wanna have a nice conversation with a female friend that's all i don't want anything else, right now its important for me to solve this problem so i can be confident, any advices how to get rid of my shyness ???? thanks in advance

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    First, I think it's really important to remember that girls, no matter how beautiful, are just like guys. They want pretty much the same things out of life as we do. Someone to care for and who cares for them. A friend to share their life with. To be accepted for who they are and be treated with respect and dignity.
    We all make asses of ourselves at times with girls, especially ones we really like and have just met. You certainly haven't cornered the market on that! And I'm sure that a lot of girls will walk away from a new encounter with a guy they like feeling just as you do.
    Stop worrying about it. That sure doesn't help.
    Just be yourself and if that's not enough, then she isn't worth your time anyway.

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  • Justnerdyme
    8 years ago

    Well online seems to help. I suppose the advice I would give you is to not push people away. Yes it may seem uncomfortable at first, but you need to get used to being around someone and getting to know them first. Try telling them small things at first like the basics then moving forward with the stuff that only those closer to you should have the level of trust you give them into knowing. At first it may seem like the world is against you and you just can't do it, however if you put your mind to it and take a small step each time you will be able to achieve. ;)

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