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Iam a guy and i have never had sex but iam afraid that when i will have sex for first time i am not gonna last even 2 minutes.when i masterbate i cum in 2 min.if you guys have any advice for that please share it
Your concerns are sensible, since it sounds like you've trained yourself to reach orgasm very quickly.
You don't have to do things that way. Look into edging. You need to learn how to recognise when you're getting close, and then back off or stop for long enough to let your state of arousal fall back a little, then give yourself a little more stimulation to ease the tension up again, then back off just before you reach the point of no return, and so on (...and on, and on, and on...).
Once you get good at it, you'll be able to experience something very close to orgasmic levels of pleasure in little waves for a very long time. And when you do let yourself come, it will often be much more intense than what you feel now. (Or it will be something like, "Oh, fuck it, I'll just stop now. That was fun, but I need to do my homework.")
What you're doing is treating sex - and masturbation is sex - as a goal-orientated thing where the goal is ejaculation. Shift your perspective so that it isn't so much about the goal, but rather the journey there. I promise you that taking your time is a hell of a lot more fun than jerking off as fast as you can as if you were deranged monkey.
That is normal. I got better with age i think... I used to last little, now i have masturbated even for 40 minutes. One of my tricks is to think about other stuff, like, while i masturbate i usualy open tons of tabs on the browser and i keep looking and opening new tabs and then i go through the videos, i think the fact taht im focused on the research makes me have a little bit of attention off the masturbating itself. BUT with a girl im sure it would be alot faster. BUT the more sex you have, the longer you will alst, like, lets say you havint fcked for a month ull be super erect and super hyped and will cum sooner, if you masturbate multiple times everyday, ull last longer
There's a spray thing you can get sex shops sell it just ask the clerk if you need help, dibt be embarased they see it so much they don't care. Heck they see more porn than any of us. My friend works in a sex shop they have to veiw returns on porn to see were the damage is. Anyways point being they've seen it all don't be nervous. Anyways there's numbing agent that you can apply yo your penis that will help you last alot longer. There's also cock rings wich will help. If a girl ever gives youh shit well you have the wrong girl and just tell her the truth, you are nervous you won't last to long and don't want to be a disappointing partner so you use a safe product that helps you last a healthy time
Or carry a picture of Hillary Clinton and when you start to cum, just look at it. SOFTON.
cum makes the best lube , just stay hard and ride that wave to the next explosion. you can even practice during a jerk session. your fears are real because you are in competition with every other guy and she is just going to get pissed at you for messing up her pussy for nothing.