How to get over someone you still love? is it normal i still fantasize...

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I sometimes have strong visualisations of my crush running up to me like she used to when we were friends and throwing her arms around me while i passionately kissed her. I also have cute thoughts like cuddling/hugging her and never letting go. I want to pin her against the wall and make out with her hard but I know this will NEVER happen. I get carried away with these thoughts sometimes and it makes me want her so badly. She hasn't been in my life for about 2 years and I know she would never be with me. How do I get over this as she's the only one I truly yearn for?

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Date other girls and she'll fade from your memory faster than ice cream melting in the sun.

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    I have never 'gotten over' someone I love. If it indeed was true love I will always love them. I think time makes it easier not to have them in your life but the love for that person never leaves.

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    • those3simplewords
      8 years ago

      I agree with you on that one, spot on. Life sucks sometimes, especially when you can't be with the one you want :/

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  • (s)aint
    8 years ago

    You are entertaining the memory of her by fantasizing about her. Yeah, she might have been cute and everything but she will fade if you ban fantasies about her and instead focus on why you two wouldn´t have worked out- Maybe her nose was crooked and her smile ugly.

    Casually date other girls and enjoy life, being stuck on a CRUSH for years isnt healthy.

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    8 years ago

    go burn her house down

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