How to get him back?

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my husband left me for an ex girlfriend, I've been with him for more than 1/2 my lifetime,& I want him back how do i get him to come back to me?

should i continue to text or email him daily telling him i love him 1
should i try to make him doubt his new girlfriend) faithfulness to hi 1
should i tell him how much i NEED him 6
should i tell him how much i LOVE him 4
should i tell him how i'll change if he comes back? 6
should i just not bug him to come back to me & risk him forgetting me? 39
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  • nightmare28
    11 years ago

    Cheating is one thing, but if after so many years he decided to leave you, and not for some young girl he just met, but for his ex girlfriend who is probably his age and obviously is not perfect since they broke up in the first place, perhaps he just saw that living with you there was was something missing for him, something that you couldn't give him. Getting him back won't change a thing, he will leave again, so I think it would be best to just let it go, and if he decides to come back to you on his own then it will be your choice whether to take him back or not, if he doesn't come back then it never meant to be.

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      he cheated once on nov. 3rd, 2012,& left me on nov.4th, 2012 claiming he was leaving because of problems/ the way he felt in our marriage, saying it had nothing to do w/ his cheating w/ his ex, but i find that she didn't have ANY effect on him leaving me, especially when it was the exact next day,& he's still seeing her? it almost makes me think since he found out he still had it in him to be able to attract/get another woman heno longer had to fear being ALONE if he left me because he'd have somebody to be there for him, even though we we're pretty much emotionally detatched from each other before he left because our marriage/relationship suffered from lack of, to no communication,& alone time together EVER. so i dunno & when asking him i usually cant get a straight answer it's either "I don't know", or just "we have had problems" so we had problems in the past, but they weren't the same problems as now.

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      • nightmare28
        11 years ago

        You answered it yourself "we we're pretty much emotionally detatched from each other before he left because our marriage/relationship suffered from lack of, to no communication,& alone time together EVER."

        Her is just a place to go, it could've been anyone else, the emphasis here is not that he left you to go to her, but that he left you. Its not a fear of being alone, I assume he is not 15, but this brief encounter might've reminded him that things between a man and a woman can be different from the way they are with you two.

        A man can enjoy many things in life but there are two fundamental things that he need to be happy, he must be looking forward to go to his job in the morning, and looking forward to come home in the evening, most guys can live with a crappy dead end job if that what it takes, some don't even got that, but when you got nothing to come home to, you got nothing to lose.

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    You are gong to have to move on.

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  • jessicakoh
    11 years ago

    Life is too short, he doesn't deserve you. Join some clubs like self defense or hunting club.

    Move on. I know it's hard, time heals.

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    11 years ago

    MOVE ON!!

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