How to get back in to my life

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I met this guy and loved him so much. I was with him for 4 years. I'm a divorced person. He is a Muslim and I'm a catholic. I took him to my business and we started doing business together. But he never spoke about marriage. 3 days ago I found out he was having mails through web girls and talking openly on a relationship. When I asked him. He started insulting me saying I'm a divorced person and he is not interested to marry a woman like me. Specially catholic. I never knew this. It so hard. Seen him every day at work and knowing he purposely used me. I can't carry on my life. I have kids. They adore him. How can I tell them like their father this person also cheated on me? Pls advice me how to get on with my life?

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    You do as much as fast as you can to move on and your kids move on with you! Say nothing bad, about him, and as little as you need to about him. Hope you gave learned a hard lesson well! Good luck with your choices!

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  • sleepingbeauty
    12 years ago

    You don't tell your kids anything Except that it didn't work out, I hope you didn't tell them their father was cheating on you! That is information between you and your partner(s) as adults, not for kids.

    Other than that I would say, be strong for yourself and your kids. As Devilla said, plough your energy into your children, kids are a great distraction and they will only benefit from the attention. At work, put your 'professional' hat on, treat him with polite courtesy and nothing more, eventually it will stop hurting.

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  • Nattie001
    12 years ago

    Maybe you should be more wise with your choices, before they actually start getting close to your kids aswel.It must be hard at work but he is simply not worth it. Good luck love

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    you say nothing to the kids that is mean, you lead the way out of this emotional void you are in. pick yourself up and do things with kids that are fun and make plans to have more interests outside kids & work. it might be hard work being happy but you have to put the effort in. be strong and determined and trust yourself first before you put trust in others to make you happy, best of luck

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  • randomjelly
    12 years ago

    You don't tell kids that. Come on now. Your best bet is to learn from your mistakes. Don't make a man who has no plans of sticking it out a part of your kids lives.

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