How to forget my lover?

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my God i relate so much to your stories. I just broke up with my boyfriend last wk. It hurts sooooooo much. sometimes i feel that my heart is going to move from its place. I cant help thinking of him, can't sleep at night. in conclusion my life is hell. dont know what to do. After i read some of the stories, i realized that i will feel this pain for quit some time. i try to keep myself busy but memories of him cross my mind all the time. i am thinking of calling him but i try to keep myself from doing so. I became so despirate to the extend that i feel hopeless. plz help me and tell me what to do through this tough period. I really need people who could understand my situation.

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  • ilovemyjew
    12 years ago

    I would make it better again.. I found myself in that situation and it was hell in me.. I cried everyday. I finally got the balls to call him. He also missed me so so so much and we regretted breaking up. I coolant imagine my life without him right now. Make it right again. Trust me

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  • bicha4u
    13 years ago

    not break up but thinking of all the bad stuff they do and hury u with...pushes you away from the person, and the wound seems to heal faster like that.

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  • PIssinyourbutt
    13 years ago

    u just have to hang in and like i have been told u let something go and if its good it will come back to you i know im in the same but opposite position...

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  • lewlew80
    13 years ago

    Breakups are definitely the worse, really nothing to do but get all ur tears out and move on, but shit takes awhile, sry

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  • soccer2
    13 years ago

    Y did u break up with him then

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    • sama2k
      13 years ago

      he wanted to have me as a second wife. I did not want to disturb his family life so i backed up despite the fact that i adore him. I know i shouldnt even get involve in such a relationship but sometimes destiny direct us in direction that we dont have control of. by the way our relationship is only by phone i only met him couple of times in the mall. we've been together for about 2 yrs but he confessed his love to me 7 months ago.

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  • bicha4u
    13 years ago

    Maybe you should talk to other guys so you can forget about him, thats one option.
    You can also do the impossible to work things out so you can
    be happy...
    I recommend you date someone else anyways everyone can forget someone you love
    I think i been in truly love once my first and i got over him by thinking of all the things he did to me like cheat,lie, and insult me.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    im a guy but i know what you mean it will take time but just find someone or sompting else to set your mind to but dont get addicted to anything because addiction ruined a year or two of my life

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  • nawaf
    12 years ago

    if u know ur boyfirend very well then u shouldn't lose him because sometime to find ur match will make u lose firends maybe or even family if they didn't like him so the easy way to found out if he is the one for u is to go out with other guys and see if u could find this guys better then or they can be better or maybe not then u will know what u had and what u having now and work out your heart not your brian and if it told u to go back just believe it n live with that's the best way and u will need to rememeber one importiant thing which is all the ppl and family have problem and we call it slat of the life and we should broof to our self first that we can handle it and don't worry about the others just be happy

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  • Dagan
    13 years ago

    How do you use God and lover in the same post? God is not happy with your relationship if you have a 'lover'. Sex is something that should be spent with one person. If's it's a true match by God, you will never doubt that and you won't want to break up with him.

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    • lolol555
      13 years ago

      And I suppose you met God and talked to him about that? Yeah didn't think so.

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