How to cheat and not get caught?

im 19 and currently in a relationship with a 22 year old guy for almost 2 years now. recently i went a festival and met up with this guy. he seems very shy and so am i. we didnt exchange numbers but text on instagram. so he is very fun to talk with as friends. and he keeps saying how cute i am and all. so he is 23. and happened to be my neighbor. last night we were talking for 4 hours in skype voice call until 4 in the morning. i dont even talk that long with my boyfriend. this guy makes me laugh and in the last hour we were just singing and he was saying how good my voice is and even though he cant sing he sang along with me. and it was cute. so today morning my boyfriend jumps into a conclusion saying "i know what you did. who are u talking to" and all. but i just couldnt answer his call because i was having a shower. so we got onto this huge fight. he always questions me if im talking to another guy. mind that im not allowed to. so, i have been caught talking to guys before but as friends. so this guy doesnt know im not single either. we met today morning as we are neighbors and he was shy and nervous to talk to me. this guy makes me feel happy again. my bf makes some drama up and fights and makes me cry. this guy just makes me laugh and all. he doesnt flirt in any dirty way. i really like him. and i wahs i could actually give him my number but id get caught for my bf. tell me what to do...

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  • finn

    There's no wedding ring on your finger therefore there's no commitment. Dump the current man and go out with the new one. It's called dating.

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  • Fall_leaves

    I think you're used to your bf so any outside attention feels new and exciting, something that may be lacking in your relationship because you've been together for awhile. The fact you're "not allowed" to talk to other guys might be part of the allure.

    Cheating isn't the way to go, you should talk to your bf and tell him the truth and then go from there. If he's willing to compromise and work on accepting that you're going to socialize with other guys maybe the relationship would work but as it is it's not going to work.

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  • suckmytoe

    Ditch the current dick head and go for the other shy one its pretty clear

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  • RoseIsabella

    If your current boyfriend is verbally and emotionally abusive toward you then why are you wasting your precious time with his sorry ass? Life is short! If the spark in this abusive relationship of yours has gone out or was never there to begin with then why not just leave this stupid guy? You said you're not "allowed" to talk to other guys, what exactly does that mean? Who is he to tell you who you can or cannot talk to is my question here? I think there's nothing wrong with having platonic friends of the opposite sex as long as one has strong and healthy boundaries.

    If you were my niece or daughter I would advise you to dump your abusive boyfriend, take a break from dating altogether and remain platonic friends with this new guy.

    I honestly can't tell you what to do in that I can't make demands on you and neither can anyone else. I want you to know that I'm powerless over your thoughts, ideas, emotions and life choices as is everyone else. Under no circumstances will I give you any advice on how to cheat and get away with it, and neither should anyone else. If someone treats you badly and tries to manipulate and control you your best bet is to cut that person out of your life.

    God has blessed you with the precious gift of free will, please be smart and use that gift appropriately!

    P.S. I would and have in the past given the same sort of advice to a young man in an abusive relationship as I have to the above OP.

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  • (s)aint

    Disgusting.

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  • DolphinAngel

    tl;dr

    Break up if you want to do anything with another person. Unless, of course, both parties are fine with polygamy.

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  • you_go_glen_coco

    Up, Down, Down, A, B, A, Down, B, B, Up

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  • Hellomysexy

    Cheating is normal in case of sex not in case of love

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