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How can I ask my boyfriend to have more intense and aggressive sex? I want him to take total and complete control. We use to have great sex but nowadays it's bland and boring. Of course I know communication is the best key so I'm asking how should I go about it without hurting his feelings?
Just bend over and tell him to hurry up and fuck your ass silly and then suck his dirty cock and nuts.
Tell him you want to try something new. Ask him to tie you to the bed with some rope. Then tell him to take his belt and give you a good spanking, afterwards he should rub some massage oil on the effected area and massage your buttocks (because he is a man, his hands will stray to your nether region as well)He will start getting aroused at this point in time...tell him to pull your hair and take you from behind...then tell him to spank your already inflamed buttocks with his hand whilst thrusting eagerly into you and say "who`s your daddy, bitch?" whilst he is doing it!
This will give him a good idea of what you need and he will soon be twisting your nipples and scratching your back whilst pounding hard at your pussy!
I have more ideas should you be interested...
I think having a conversation that is serious and honest out of bed is the best way. Tell him in a way that maybe sounds like its his idea. Without knowing you guys its hard to give advice but I know what you mean and a guy that is all nicey nice can be really bland.
Maybe tell him you read about roleplay or whatever and you think it would be fun to try. Tell him you want to play the princess and the the beast and see if he goes for it. Ya know, if you want a certain thing and he can't do it you need to get looking again anyway so you might as well toss it out there.
Insult his dick and shout at him, make him cry. Tell him you hate little small dick homos
Tell him to ram his cock all the way up your ass to the hilt until he rips you a new asshole until you bleed and then suck his dirty cock and nuts.
Then go to the emergency room to get your asshole sewn up.
This one's not a keeper. If he doesn't already know how to please you you're not likely to be able to teach him. You're going to need to find a real male to get what you're looking for.
Sounds like you guys need a Jamaican weekend.
Me and one of my ex's used to have those a lot. We'd go to the store Friday night after work and buy everything we need for a weekend indoors. Get home around 8pm and make a nice dinner, have some drinks and start Fuccing...fucc and eat, fucc all night only stopping to fall asleep for an hour or so then fucc some more. Literally it would be like sex at 9pm for an hour or so, take a small break then sex again at around midnight, drift off to sleep then sex again at 2am and again at 4 something and again when the sun came up. Cook some breakfast and eat it out of each others mouths while we actually have sex 'while' eating. This would go on and on and on the whole weekend until Monday morning. Talk about rough sex, one weekend I fucced her so hard and long that rubbed some skin off my dicc
Communication is everything, share with him the things you like,have him lick and touch you the way you want to be, show and tell him lick or rub here if you don't he won't know what things you need to cum,grab his head pull it in close to your pussy this will show him you lick him rubbing that spot,mainly just say let's go to the porn store look at things to keep our sex life a live
assure him that it is nothing he is doing wrong and that's for him as well as for you
well guysI just finally come out and told my boyfriend I wanted to have rough sex and that I really wanted to be manhandled by him and to my surprise he was just as excited as me...so tonight its own. I will let you all know how it goes. I have a 5 month old so we can't be too spontaneous. ....wish us lots of luck and tons of fun! thanks everybody for such wonderful advice!
You have to flirt with him to show that you're submissive for example call him daddy and ask him to call you good girl when you do something he wants. He'll get the message pretty quick that you want him to be in charge and in control.
Find a porn that shows a scenario you like ( men love visual aids) or get him to handcuff you or tie you up.
Punch him in the throat and tell him you want it like your a prison inmate in the showers, then casually spread your legs and let him put his beef roll inside your warm gooey centre.
If you already know about communicating with him verbally, openly and honestly, I'm not sure what else we could suggest.
It kills me, he IS so strong but he truly does loves me... therefore he thinks he must be gentle.....bummer! :(