How the fuk do u know if someone means it when they say they love u??

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What if they contradict themselves often? My friend told me point blank to my face that she loves me heaps and numerous times said shes so luky to have me back in her life! Then she comes up to where I live and explains she cant stay long and can drop off something I left at hers as shes going to cousins bday (btw who she doesnt even really like) and has lots people to visit. Making me feel as if im not important enough to spend time with despite the amazing things she said when we had the heart to heart talk! How do I know she really does care!? Help please :(

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  • chained_rage
    9 years ago

    Seriously?

    Is this the only noteworthy thing that has happened in your life that you feel the need to post this same shit seventy two million times?

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    9 years ago

    I'm not trying to be an a-hole, but you've posted this story multiple times already. If this friend really bothers you THAT much, then save yourself the headache and forget about this person, forget about their family, and forget just about anything and everything you had with this person. It's not worth stressing over.

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  • seekelp
    9 years ago

    Love means different things to different people.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Two people voted not normal, what are they refering to, do u knw? Also can u provide an example…?

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  • Ellenna
    9 years ago

    Because your reaction to her seeing family members and other people seems quite intense, but maybe I'm wrong: I don't know you so I'm only guessing from your post.

    She can sincerely love you and still want to do other things, you know

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  • Ellenna
    9 years ago

    Love is an action, nor a word, but just because someone loves you doesn't mean they want to be with you exclusively!

    Can't you let her have her own life and love you as well? Your possessiveness and insecurity are issues which can totally wreck any relationship, so maybe you could focus on changing that rather than expecting other people to give up other relationships for you.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Yeah agreed its an action! Why do u think im confused. Im not at all possesive- I hardly c the chick -_-

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      • Ellenna
        9 years ago

        Possessiveness isn't about how often you see the person (if it's a chick you have other problems, like bestiality) it's about how you feel and your attitudes

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          9 years ago

          You know what I mean- chick as in girl. I dont see how im possesive?

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    • eyecandy20
      9 years ago

      Not trying to sound like an ass, but some friends talk to ech other once a day or few times a week. I dont see how op is being possesive considering the circumsances.

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      • Ellenna
        9 years ago

        Just because some people do that doesn't mean OP should be so upset the other person doesn't want to do this, it was the tone of his post which seemed possessive and insecure to me, nothing to do with what anyone else does

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