How the fuck do men and women get along? (is it normal to think this)

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Men and Women are too fucking different. Difference when you have to get along with a person is never ever good and always impedes that (getting along). There's a language barrier. If there weren't a language barrier, dating and relationship books wouldn't make up more than 1% of the book industry. Some people even use this language barrier to their advantage, e.g. women leading men on.

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AS FRIENDS/CONTEMPORARIES: I have more male friends than female friends. way, WAY more. Why? because befriending people who are similar to me feels normal, funnily enough. Females are dissimilar to me by default. Lots of heterosexual men want sex, which is unattainable from males, and can often be a major reason for striking up interaction from the males to the females. Females have probably picked up on this from centuries of interaction, and in an ideal world girls and boys could just fuck all day and night long but NOOOOOOOO women conveniently have to have sex drives 2.5 times smaller than men's. Women also pretend to be totally disinterested in sex to look more "mature" as a gender. It's almost as if men have to convert women from asexuality, at least that's what I've gathered from Hollywood comedies. If Hollywood does a shitton of movies about that then there must at least be some element of truth to it.

DATING: Dating fucking confuses me. Say you and your partner are going out to movies or restaurants and shit like that. You're not REALLY there for a good feed and atmosphere, or the thrills of the movie. The entire evening, and every single one you need to have, is a facade for more silly fucking PRETEND GAMES; the male is on a mission. He's trying to build rapport, to gain favour, through every single means he can. He isn't really enjoying the evening, the evening is WORK for the male. The female isn't having fun either, she's on a mission too, but in this one, she's sitting on her high throne, watching, scepter in hand, the male bend over backwards (not in terns of pleasing her of course, but in terms of making her like him.). She's judging, gauging, measuring, watching, leering, investigating, sniping etc. etc. etc. whether or not the male is good enough for him. both the parties are on CONSTANT GUARD. If women aren't retarded and/or retarded looking, and their excess wight isn't their most distinguishing feature, men will come to her on a conveyer belt.

SIDE QUESTION: Why are women always in that position? I'll use typical fairytales as an example. Male prince fights a bajillion monsters, conquers blistering cold and scorching deserts and kills a fucking dragon to boot. What does the princess do? Sits on her ass in the castle being entitled to a prince. Men get flack for feeling any kind of entitlement to females. Do princes go to these lengths SOLELY because the female LOOKS GOOD? (Side note: Beauty is happiness. Don't tell me it ain't, because it just is. This is part of the reason why I plan on getting plastic surgery in the future.)

I'll level with you, the is it normal community. I'm an 18 year old male currently in university in Victoria, Australia, and the world is pretty scary to me. I'm DYING for a relationship, I've got a lot of love to give. But notice that I've just written a fucking essay. The real reason I'm writing this shit is because I want people to lovingly rub my head and tell me I'm "silly" for over-thinking shit like this over a motherly chuckle. I was planning on writing a great deal more but I simply can't be bothered this morning.

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    If you are too similar you will fight over the same prize. You like red, he likes red and there is only one red apple that you both WANT. However if you are too different you can not get along. He agree with the blue side and blue customs while you agree with red side and red customs. However if you have the right blend you are compatable. You can never completly get along with someone who is entirly different you need some common ground. Example: Character A: likes video games, keeps to them-self, likes to make art and fanart, likes cartoons, likes writing, is responsible, and always get everything in order Character B: Keeps to himself, messy person, disorganized, Likes to read, likes to play video games, likes anything videogame related.

    Both these characters are people who like to keep to themselves and both like video-games, if the one who makes art makes stuff for games the person B is always going to be interested, The first one is responsible and has everything organized which might make person B really annoying but is beneficial for person B if they live together since they will always have a clean house.

    So it comes down to chemistry. You don't have to be exactly the same but you have to be similar enough to tolerate each other.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    There's your problem.

    you seem to think that men are the good guys, sacrificing themselves for just one touch from a stuck up beauty queen.

    This, more than anything else, is going to hurt your chances at that relationship you're "dying" for. You want a girl it seems... but you keep talking about them as if they're bitches and stuck up... and you wonder why they don't want to go out with you?

    That's probably why. Girls don't find that attractive.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    It's easy to get along with females so long as you remember a few things.

    If she says "I'm fine", she probably isn't, hug her (don't hug her however if you were the one pissing her off, say sorry, just say it).

    Most girls don't like boy humour or rude humour, (some do, like me, I can take a rude joke or whatever) but remember to keep it not gross/rude/stuff like that around girls.

    When she has a problem, don't tell her how to fix it, just listen to her whine and be emotional. (hugs help here too).

    We are different but when you understand the differences and know how to deal with them, it makes it much easier.

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  • Bad_girl19
    11 years ago

    You need to read "men are from Mars, women are from Venus". I am serious!

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  • KeddersPrincess
    11 years ago

    Well, honestly, I always found it harder to get along with women. Growing up, most of my friends were male. It was always easier for me to get along with guys more than other females. I don't really think it has to do much with gender.

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    12 years ago

    Hmm while Ive heard a surprising amount of people make this argument I have never had that problem myself. Im a 22 year old female and for most of my life, Ive had far more male friends than female friends. Guys don't play head games, or gossip. They tell you what they're thinking. They dont start stupid vendettas or make things into beauty contests. I've always had a hard time finding lasting female friends (there have been a select few in my life) because most of them seem so strange to me. :P

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  • aussiewolf
    12 years ago

    dude you're only 18. aussie chicks arent that hard to get along with but they have changed since i was a teen. maybe you are just looking for love in all the wrong places. dont over-analyse everything. just go with the flow.

    you're too young to be thinking about a serious relationship anyway. just bang the chick and move on to conquer the next.

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