How strange/unfair

what kind of grown man talking to women over MSN is creeped out at the thought of sex with her?

the internet was designed for unsafe, indiscreet, anonymous sex. it's fucks like you who misuse this great gift, and are truly a blight on all mankind.

maybe she is really a he ---- let her go if she got mad about it she just wants sex--- or meet her then you might totally change yur mind either way if you're a christian then you know that you should be looking for a christian as well and she doesn't sound like one

Some of these comments are just really rude.

You should be proud of who you are, and I'm guessing bein a christian is probably part of your identity if you're sticking to your guns which I think is awesome.

I have sex out of wedlock. I'm not perfect. But I think that no matter if you are male or female, if that is what you believe, if it is a religious thing..then other people should RESPECT IT. It's your body,and in the end you will have to live with your decision.

Remember though, its the internet..you may be talking to a man, or a teen, or maybe she was who she said. But perhaps you should tell her also that you have respect enough for her to say no and maybe you care a little bit more about who she is rather than what she is.

If a guy said that to me I'd think it was super adorable :-)

when the guy wants sex he is a pervant
when a girl wants sex she is a sl*t

stop calling ppl names >< they are so pointless because it is perfectly normal to want sex for both genders and react to it (as long as its not againts the targest desires (not against the law) XD)

I was just thinking maybe she thought you were lieing to her and she thought you just didn't want to fuck her so she felt rejected. I mean in this day and age it is extremely rare to actually find a guy who considers himself a christian and one who actually takes that sex before marriage is a sin thing so seriously.

What was an upright ChrIstian doing having sex chat? Then you get all righteous about it? You got scared didn't you? And now you want to scream "Jezebel!!!"

Seems a bit hypocritical.

Erm, that wasn't a girl!

Hey, it could have been a dateline set up...

I had an ex who was arrested because he went to meet some 15 year old girl, to have sex with her, of course,

The cops were there waiting for him.

He calls it Entrapment...

I called it a good reason to leave his ass.

I think you were smart, and honorable.

As for the girl...

You never really know who someone is over the internet.

why didnt you get her pic and then decide? Na im just kidding, good work i would have done the exact same "i think"

She was just gonna use you ... sorry dude :(

LOL. Do we really have to spell it out for you? She wanted to get laid and does not want to marry you. Get over it.

ooh yea, you don't wanna have a one night stand, and end up on valtrex medication for life

she probably depressed, lonely, and has tons of STDs and wanna revenge by spreading 'em. or she's a w****. bring money and gun if u actually come over, i really hope you don't. ugh, never meet up to have sex over the i-net. it could be a jail bait too.

I bet it was a rapist who had this "girl" hostage to try to enice you to his house. :p

good god your an idiot

she thought you were a complete faget so she made fun of u.

It was probably CHRIS HANSEN and gang!

firepoker.

I didn't know you had to be 18 to use this site, myspace is 16 I think. I personally think you should have to have a way to prove you are 18 to join those type of sites. It would stop all the predators you know they don't want ass over 17.

Matt15,
You should stay off MSN, it sucks. Try AOL, I have aol and the chatrooms are very different, with all kinds of people. I have truly never had anyone try to get me to come to their house and have sex with them, and I've been in chatrooms since I was 13 years old.

yea I think its kinda stupid you have to claim to be at least 18 for such sites like this, as well as dating sites (u can be 16 or 17 and still date) and I did lie which is wrong but at least it wasnt to an actual person

You're probably better off for not going round; "she" would have just hurt you with "her" massive penis...

Lols look, she was a skank, dont worry bout it.
The real girls, the ones that are worth worrying about dont care that u want to wait.
I mean, i think its fantastic that u want this. And waiting for marriage is not as rare as people may think.
And it true, it was msn, there are alot of fakes on msn/online. more then half of wat people say online or over msn is bull, like what this girl asked u, she may have wanted to see what u would say.
So there is no reason wondering or worrying about it.

she was probably some michial jackson guy

I say you go around there on the pretence of having sex. Then say you like some light bondage tie her up nice and tight and then fuck her with a cross like Linda Blair in the exorcist then pile a big stack of really thick bibles on top of her and print a picture of it wit

"vengence is mine sayeth the lord" and post it on the internet

ummm.. it's MSN. You can't trust anybody on the internet.. people are freaks! It was probably not even a girl. Just some old fat balding man who wanted to rape you... lol!

I think shes actually a really nice girl.. but she doesnt feel its important to be nice to ppl over the internet who she doesnt know in actual life (if you get my drift) so shes not bad, she was just been like that to me, cos she thinks it doesnt matter. I mean, apart from how she acted once over msn, theres nothing to say she is what you said.

pimp slap dat hoe mistsah

She's a slut. Why bother talking to her anymore?

When I find out that a female is christian, I pretty much give up on any romantic possibilities. This has nothing to do with sex but EVERYTHING to do with intelligence. Christians are willfully ignorant which is a huge turnoff. My advice: get a good science textbook and start reading it. I'm not trying to insult you as you're probably a smart person but you've apparently been misinformed about some things. Get that book.