How strange is it that i like being treated like a child in bed?
Firstly, I'm a lesbian, which is worth mentioning because this proclivity is somewhat less common among female homosexuals than straight women. I'm a fiercely competitive and scholarly person, and my intelligence is integral to my self-worth. The anomaly here is that I'm extremely turned on by women who are significantly smarter than I am, even though I simultaneously detest the feeling of degradation. I'm reluctant to admit it, but I'm seldom attracted to a person who couldn't run rings around me. On a similar note, I find being patronized as if I'm a stupid, naive child both titillating and oddly comforting. Although this is a stark deviation from the fantasies of other women who have preferences that are practically identical to mine, outwardly vindictive and derogatory remarks don't do anything for me if they're aggressive. Humiliation veiled in tenderness and sweetness does. I was pressured to discard puerile behaviors before I even hit puberty and my parents were always incredibly aloof, which might explain— but not necessarily justify—my fascination with being treated like a dependent little girl.