How should i react when my bf sends me his ex's photos?

He suddenly sente his ex's photos, he had been in atmost 5 relationships and sent me 2 or 3 of his ex's photos and especially pointing out things in the photos( "look she is not feeling cold and me the opposite"). I felt bad but I did not know if I was taking the things too seriously.

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  • CDmale4fem

    Yea, what Rose said. Hey Rose, you don't mind if I'm under you for a while.?
    But yea, it sounds like he's saying "see this is how you need to be." Either way, I would say " pack your stuff and run.

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    • RoseIsabella

      Yep, needs to on her ASICS, and run!

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  • SwickDinging

    He's an insecure loser who wants to try and make you feel bad about yourself so that he feels superior. Dump him. And just to rub salt into the wound, tell him you're breaking up with him because he's become too clingy

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  • CDmale4fem

    Get some pictures together of decent looking guys and tell him they are your ex's and see what he says. But stick with the story so he will believe you.

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    • Adi_18

      Nice one 😏

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      • RoseIsabella

        If you do that I want an update.

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  • IrishPotato

    LEAVE.

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  • RoseIsabella

    WTF? Why did he send you that garbage? Did you ask to see the pics, or did he send the pics out if a clear blue sky? Does he compare you to his exes?

    I personally don't think it's normal at all. He sounds like a jerk who thinks everything is about him, and is still stuck on one or more of his exes. I feel like this guy is probably most stuck on himself. He sounds like an inconsiderate asshole.

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    • Adi_18

      No I did not ask for. And is he narssistic to some extent? Or he just wanted to make me jealous?

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      • RoseIsabella

        P.S. I don't know if he's narcissistic or insecure. Does he tend to feel threatened easily, and get defensive often?

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        • Adi_18

          No. He does accept his mistakes which he hardly makes one. He says he doesn't like long term relationships because girls gets clingy(talking 5hrs everyday). But sending pictures was too much of it. Thanks for the suggestions.

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          • RoseIsabella

            No offense, but he sounds like a weirdo.

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      • RoseIsabella

        Hmm... Ask him. Say, "what's up with sending me all of the pictures of your exes, dude"? Or you could jokingly ask him, "so like, do you want pics of my exes now"? I used to have this one frenemy back in college whose query probably would have went as follows, "so, are you one of those people who likes to try to make others jealous, because deep down inside you're really insecure", or, "do feel the need to validate yourself by showing me pics of your exes so I'll know that they found you attractive just in case I think your an undesirable dork"?

        Those are just a few suggestions.

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  • TerriAngel

    Lots of big dick pics, then text good bye.
    Block his number instantly and move on.
    If you stay.
    Things aren't going to get better.

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  • SmokeEverything

    You should try to have sex with his ex, then blame it on him for showing you the revealing pictures.

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  • Send him a pic of your asshole and tell him to lick it. Yum yum

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