How should i lose my virginity

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I am a 23 years old man and I have been questioning myself on different ways to lose my virginity. Just as a description, I think that I am physically average or slightly above average, and I am an educated and a pretty interesting dude.
Don't get me wrong, I don't really care about losing my virginity. It's more about having sex in general. I've been waiting for many years and I really want that to happend (that, or a girlfriend).
I've had kind of opportunities in the past, but it always ended up failing for various reason, often (suprisingly) not even related to me...

Recently I tried out meeting applications, online posts, etc... And I've been a bit confused by the different ways in which I could have sex. From what I've seen, it seems to be really tough to have sex with a girl one to one... I would like to have YOUR point of view on the differents situations that I'm facing, from what you know of me. Should I :

1) Wait to find a loved one, even if it could take 2 or 3 more years. Because having sex for the first time with someone we love is the best that could happend.

2) Try to find a couple (I found some online) that want to have a threesome. I really don't care about another dude being on the girl with me (as long as I don't have to do anything with the guy), but I don't know if a threesome is appropriate for a first time.

3) Pay an escort girl because it's probably going to provide me the most complete sex. I don't care about the money, but I do care about the fact of having to pay for a first time.

Of course, if I get the opportunity to have a one to one with a girl (for free), that'd be the best. But that's unlikely to happend in the near future. I'm just asking you whether the 2nd and 3rd option are "lame/wrong/bad/not to be proud of" for a first time, or if I just shouldn't care about it.

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  • LloydAsher
    5 years ago

    Finding a couple wont work, they want experts not novices. Find an escort that will take care of it. Be sure to wear protection.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Maybe you're right, I don't know. You think it's "socially ok" to lose virginity with an escort ?

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      • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
        5 years ago

        I wouldnt do it with a couple. Tell the escort youre a virgin. Try to find a good one too dont be cheap. Get a very hot one.

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      • LloydAsher
        5 years ago

        You dont have to say it publicly. All first times suck, especially if its with another virgin. Its acceptable in my opinion, you just have to learn the ropes.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          5 years ago

          You might be right, I'll try to get a good one.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    I lost my virginity at 15. wasn't very good, but for some weird reason I would love to go back and do it again.

    It was when I first started hanging out down the street (main street of my town) Realized a few people I knew did it. We used to get older dudes to buy us beer. Second time I went down and drunk beer my older brother fucked this chick in an vacant caravan in a caravan park (whole other story, actually funny story) third time I got drunk down the street I fucked the chick my brother fucked. Was funny, first off I didn't even want to kiss her cause my bro already smashed her. Ended up fucking her in a room above a pub.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Thank you for sharing your story, but I don't really see how I can relate with mine. Unless what you're saying is that we shouldn't care about the "first time" ?

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      • [Old Memory]
        5 years ago

        Care about it. Learn from it. embrace it... But at the same time don't care about it! Relax let it happen. Also there is nothing wrong with paying for it. I have so much love for my working ladies!

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          5 years ago

          I think we think the same way :)

          Though, what am I gonna say to my friends when I'll tell them that I paid for my first time hahaha

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          • [Old Memory]
            5 years ago

            I think your friends will respect it.

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              5 years ago

              Maybe ye

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