How often is too much sex?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for about six months now and were both really attracted to each other so everythings going good but for the whole six months weve been together we have sex about twice a day and i'm a little worried if it may be too much...

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  • simonetwenty

    Oh jeez, rub it in!
    Some of us have REAL problems. :P haha

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  • Lacrimosa_Insanity

    hehe. :P
    well i for one am a very sexual person, its like a drug.
    3-4 times a day some days for me, unless im exhausted from work... even then i like it at least once, slow :P
    I love my boyfriend so much though, and he loves me. Its not like all we do is have sex... but it does happen pretty often lol.
    Intercourse is important in a healthy relationship.. but my ex bf broke up with me because he thought we had too much sex. what?! lol.
    I've often wondered the same thing.. how much is too much? but,i am who i am. :)
    take care!

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  • Hiljaisen_susi

    There are 2 answers to this:
    1. You can never have too much!
    Or alternatively...
    2. When it starts to chafe!

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    • momzthebest

      truer words have never been spoken.

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    • wearethecast

      ewwwww. lol

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  • lovequestions

    Heh, I am a musician, artist, and otherwise a very passionate person...I love sex, but I can't handle more than once every other day with my girl...I am perfectly fine with once or twice a week...Why? Because it is so good. Look, you can tell me how amazing it is and shit but honestly, if you feel the need to be having sex 2 or 3 times a day, that sex must not be fulfilling as it could be. My girl and I exhaust our physical and emotional reserves each time and we cannot keep that pace. Sure, we have had vacations where we do it every day or twice a day, but I honestly do not prefer that because it just becomes great sex instead of blow-your-fucking-mind sex. As much as it seems like you can have both, you gotta realize that you will be sacrificing some quality for quantity.

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    • dopeXsweet

      Best answer

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  • nobodyspecial

    you can never have too much sex :D

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  • iliketomoveit

    Oh wow, 2 or 3?
    Me and my man can get up to 6 or more. Its great! We are both loving it!

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  • cookie33

    thank god i'm not the only one!!
    my boyfriend and i have sex 2 or even 3 times a day.
    it's cool though, because even though we do it that often, our relationship isn't just based on sex=)

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  • Tempest-au

    Only once was I in a relationship where I had "Too much sex" - and that was because my girlfriend kept me up most of the night, every night, and I started suffering sleep deprivation. It was fine for her, she slept during the day while I was at work.

    Too much sex is when one of you is falling sleep while driving home from work. Up until that point, it could be considered "not enough sex". I know, it's difficult trying to get "just enough", but that's part of the fun isn't it. ;)

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  • Cry5t41

    I have sex up to 3-4 times a day I love sex I'm addicted but I never get bored of it, the only bad side to my crazy sex life I always get urine infections :( I love sex so much but when that happens it makes me sad

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  • Beasty-man

    If your bf can cum twice day everyday. Make love like and when you want :)

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  • rockycruz

    No such thing as too much. Sex five times a week. If you both enjoy, you have no problems.

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  • guhhh, you gunna be looser than a goose

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    • lovelylipzzz

      Ooo my daysss..haharrr ..proper true

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  • joelsmo

    don't worry about it, numbers are meaningless as long as you both want it enjoy

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  • increased

    :o

    I hope you turn into an octomom.

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  • BlueAlice

    Lucky you!

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  • sucka-free

    It's normal and it's awesome.

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  • Judas

    Too much? pfft, that's fine trust me. My wife and i have been together 12 years now married for 9 and we still have sex about 2 times a day sometimes more. I wouldn't sweat it

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  • crazyjpduh

    It's only to much if it is interfering with work or your health other wise go go and make sweet monkey love all day and night and little fact it's also could be considerd to much if you doing it more than this one type of monkeys that have sex 23 times a day or more I might be off by a time or two but I know IRS around that and if you do the Math that's almost once every hour and they even do it while they eat

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  • christine

    Maybe it is more than normal but its a harmless activity so if you both like it then keep it up.

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  • jc82592

    i love too much sex… lol

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  • I tend to last an hour. I wish not so long so if I went twice, that is way too much time. It isn't so much how many times but how long you last.

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  • Simply_Abnormal

    It is not about whether it is too much, it depends on the relationship.
    If you need to have sex 2 times a day, then it's normal..

    On the other hand it could be seen as abnormal to those whom have it less often and think they have it too much.

    if you're happy with it, it doesn't matter of anyone elses opinion :)

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  • BirdIsDaWordGuy

    F***ING HELL YEAH! TWICE A DAY!!!??? JEASUS CHRIST!!!

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  • AngelOfDeath

    its never too much until it gets painful or boring

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  • clawsgirl02

    me and my boyfriend have sex at least once a day. we are very creative people so it never is the same or ever gets boring. i love every second of it, till he tries anal sex,but i guess i shall deal. i love him so i'll make him happy. :)

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    • smileytea

      Whoa, do what your comfortable with.

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  • russellnb

    When his dick falls off that will have been too much

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  • DehGoobaLife

    I'm 14, think of a real problem, :P

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  • Bunny420

    My dick won't get hard 2-3 times a day. :P

    It doesn't sound too bad if you're both enjoying it though.

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  • aquist

    Oh, I soooooo disagree with "it must not be fulfilling" if you want it 2-3 times/day. When it feels so damn good, why wouldn't you do it as often as you can? Unlike other things you may love, say ice cream, where partaking 2-3 times a day can cause some real damage..... ;P

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  • combatgal856

    If it hurts or feels sore due to the friction then you should rest for a while. If not then there is nothing to complain about

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  • Ohiosweete008

    When you are raw and it hurts- stop. Until then..keep going!

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  • JenniferHanks

    I think the more the better. I have it on my break all the time. I agree with hiljaisen_susi, go till it's chafing!

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  • Cathro

    YOU SHOULD BE DOING THAT PENIS 5 TIMES A DAY

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    • Cry5t41

      Just ride that dick yeah hahah I do this all the time

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  • Londoncityrocker

    give your balls a little time to rest lol doing it too much CAN do permanent damage, but in the heat of the moment all that can go out the door trust me I know lol I've been there lotsa times.

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