How often is it normal to have sex / masturbate?
So watching porn and seeing them last so long, i just wonder...
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So watching porn and seeing them last so long, i just wonder...
Porn is generally several takes. Most can't last as long as they can in porn. Plus i mean alot of the time im sure it's painful. Probably chafed at a bit
porn is 5 minutes of hard fucking then 15 min break so the guy doesnt cum
Don't make any decisions about your own sex life based on porn. It's all fake
While porn does depict real sex acts, it doesn't depict how sex is in real life. It's all done in several takes, not one. Dont compare yourself to it. You're just going to create unrealistic standards for yourself.
Another opinion from someone who doesn't appear to like porn and hasn't been exposed to the broad variety available in porn. Good on you for staying away from a dangerous fad that destroys libidos and relationships, but no offense, not in a million years will you have any idea whether other couple's sex lives are like or unlike porn.
If you watch porn made by couples, or even professional porn featuring real couples or just performers who are friends and under no pressure, you will see that sometimes people come right away, sometimes they cannot come at all; sometimes they make each other come, and sometimes they need to do it themselves. This is not just what sex is like for different people and different couples, but what sex is like for one couple over the course of time, be it years or a single night. Sooner or later somebody comes right away, sooner or later somebody cannot come at all. All that matters is giving each other as much pleasure as either of you wants or needs until you are both satisfied or exhausted.
To actually answer OP's question, though - most committed couples have sex 3-4 times a week early in a relationship, then about 5 times per month later on. Masturbation habits are about double this as you go, depending on the person's sex life and libido.
Going from memory here, don't cite me in any papers.