How often do you see your partner?

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Me and the other half have been together 3 months I’m new to this relationship thing. I always end up getting hurt. We started off seeing each other once a week, then twice a week and an odd time 3 times... it’s usually Friday and Saturday we would go on dates or an odd time chill at his and watch a film.
Recently he’s become sick, a cold. He’s had a kidney transplant a few months back and with his tablets his immune system has gone so he gets everything going. So for the past few weeks we haven’t done days, he either hasn’t wanted me to go round or I’ve gone round to his and he’s just slept and not said much. He’s stopped planning stuff with me and asking me to go round...

I just want to see him all the time and my anxiety is telling me he’s going off me so I don’t plan things because I want him to plan them so that I know he wants to see me... but I’m scared of being hurt, so I am holding back and not speaking up or planning things.
He’s stopped flirting and being his true self so it makes me back away...

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Based on 9 votes (4 yes)
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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    4 years ago

    he just had a fuckin kidney transplant and is sick as fuck and yallre just worried about date night and yalls insecurities?

    jesus fuck

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      I suck at relationships. I feel I’ve been a real bitch

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    • mauzi
      4 years ago

      LOL i wasnt about to read the boring post, but damn thats weird as fuk. so what do we think this OP: autistic, Narcissist, or troll?

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      • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
        4 years ago

        Its definitely not a troll

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    • RoseIsabella
      4 years ago

      Yep. Most people would be more than overwhelmed by an emotionally needy within the midst of a serious problem.

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  • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
    4 years ago

    I saw you post a few months back about this. I hope he gets better. It sounds to me like he is sick. Just stick by him. I dont think he feels like going on dates and stuff when he's had such a traumatic illness. Just ask him if he needs anything done around the house and give him support. Make sure you arent stressing him out thats bad for his condition.

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  • mauzi
    4 years ago

    Never

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  • IrishPotato
    4 years ago

    No

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  • CoffeeTime
    4 years ago

    Cut him some slack. He's had a kidney transplant and on top of that a bloody cold. It's even worse when your immune system is fucked up. He needs to rest before he can function normally as before. If you can't wait for sometime, it's better for him to leave you.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      I guess I haven’t been very understanding and just been thinking about myself and what I need. I just got in my head he doesn’t want to see me

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  • [Old Memory]
    4 years ago

    To often

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  • 1ne8ight7even
    4 years ago

    Too often.

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  • Doesnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    To answer the title, I don't have one, I have several and I see them anywhere from once a year to twice a week depending on many things.

    If you want relationship help, I suggest you maybe make another post with more detail. It's hard to tell what is up from what you have here. But he does seem like something is really buggig him so you need to talk to him more and give him a chance to be honest with you and tell you why he is acting so weirdly. Or you could just not risk it and and get outta there, which is what I would do mate. But I'm about the opposite of a romantic so take it with a grain of salt please.

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