How often do you fight with your significant other?

Once every two months or less 39
About once a month 24
About once every two weeks 19
About once a week 25
About two/three times a week 18
Four times a week or more 19
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  • theytookthisone

    Never...forever alone :(

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  • wigsplitz

    Pert near every god damn day. I'm always pissed off. Or easy to piss off.

    I mean, I'm reasonable but I don't let anything have even a second to fester within me, I just start yelling if something or someone pisses me off. Why the hell not? It only hurts ME to hold it back, so fuck it. If I'm pissed, you're going to hear about it.

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  • GlassDarkly31

    Don't have one.

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  • RubyCane

    Fights in a relationship are vital! Don't think of it as a bad experience, it uncompresses the stress, the thoughts/fears, the routine, you get to know more about your significant other and he/she gets to know you better, you can learn precious lessons from these small fights... Lessons that can make you and your sweetheart better and better! Just do not cross the lines, fights are vital only as long as they are lectical and non-harmful!!! :)

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  • SoccerStud88

    as many times as it will lead to angry make up sex which usually happens in the kitchen

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  • Who_Fan4Life

    What's so significant about them!?

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  • dardydardizzle

    Everyday. It's always about the same things, family, money etc- and sometimes it's about totally stupid things; but I think it's what makes our relationship work.We're weird like that.

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  • UnrecognizableMan

    Me and my GF never argue after being together for 5 years (actually once, but no raised voices, we sat in quiet both annoyed for an hour). Its a great relationship. If we ever disagree about anything, we discuss our reasons in an adult manner. And then its clear who has to put efforts in where in the future. Its pretty simple...

    Arguing accomplishes nothing that can't be settled in a much easier, more mature, manner.

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  • sorealsotrue

    Whoever thinks fighting with your partner is good is a complete DUMASS !!! Fighting is never good! No one likes a nag! Words can hurt more then you know coming from the love of your life.You never know what words might stick to your parner which can make them sad or hurt inside and enough fighting might make them change their opinion about you or possibly make them love u less.True everyone argues sometime but it should be rare as possible.You should aim at making each other happy always fighting is not good.You might think it a harm fight and they might be thinking fuck u I ll find someone who ain't got no problems with me all the time now u wondering why they are cheating on u or staying out later.You should be able to talk to your partner about everthing and without always getting mad first life is already hard enough don't make to worse.I (HATE) fighting with my baby that's my heart.So I'm gonna put it like this think of a pot some are big and some are small.With the smallest drip of water after time the water runs out.Just like a fighting can fill a persons heart You don't know how big someones pot is so don't let your words over flow your partners pot.TRUST ME

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  • rachel4786

    i argue with my boyfriend like 3x a week. I use it as a learning experience. We go through what makes us angry, (we use a calm voice and level-head) and then we figure out a solution to the problem. This gives a chance for both of us to get out what we need to get out, figure out ways that were going to work on it, then we find a resolution and then move on.. sometimes it gets crazy and we hang up on each other lol other times its calm and we get through it. Bottom line, you're not perfect. You're going to argue/fight with your significant other. Its the way you decide to work through it and hang in there is going to be the end result. If you're easy to give up, then it wasnt worth fighting for in the beginning. If you decide you will work through it no matter how long it takes, then you're on the right path, cuz no1 is perfect and everyone has problems and flaws. you have to look at some1 for the good, bad, and the ugly. thats when you know you can stand them. True love is patient, kind and it prevails all.. ;)

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  • joybird

    I'd say I have fought with my husband about 6 times max in 28 years - and I have always been in the right! Either him speeding on his motorbike or drinking and then driving.

    It is nonsense to think you MUST fight!
    You are supposed to be with the person who makes you happy - not someone who's just there to be abused by you or for you to abuse.

    I've never understood why people fight.
    If it's trivial eg. socks on the floor, I think about it until the next day before I say anything. By then I've usually forgotten it!

    My sister moans and fights constantly, she ridicules me for thinking before arguing. However, she's the one who's had cancer, whose husband and children were so deeply unhappy in that rotten home, that they moved out at the very first opportunity. It may make you feel better - but everyone around you feels rotten. If you resort to insults, you can't take your toxic words back either!

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  • AnaBanna

    about once a weekend, when you both get drunk on the weekends of course

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  • chubbawubba69

    As long as you try to turn it into a constructive discussion about whatever you disagree on it can be constructive. When you turn it into a chance to attack or hurt the other person it is not constructive at all.

    My wife and I disagree a few times a week on average. Sometimes it leads to nothing more than me picking my socks up off the floor, other times it leads to a big argument.

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  • dappled

    I've rarely fought with someone I've been with. Either I'm easy to live with (ha!), pick people who are easy to live with (ha!), or I should fight more.

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  • pem24

    Arguments are unpredictable. I may count them if I intentionally provoked our fights.

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