How normal is "stage fright" in the bedroom

How many of you guys haven't been able to get it up simply because you were nervous.

Not because of alcohol, or medicine. Simply because you were nervous.

Were you terribly embarrassed? What did the girl do?

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Based on 40 votes (34 yes)
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Comments ( 16 )
  • TheMightyOz

    I can never get it up. Viagra doesn't work, stages don't work, dick sucking doesn't work, porn movies don't work. I am just pathetic.

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    • thegypsysailor

      Have you had any blood/circulation test done? Could be a small tumor/growth or something that restricts the blood flow?

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    • Akell

      Has it always been like that for you?

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      • TheMightyOz

        No. I was able to fuck for a few years but only got laid a few times because women don't like me.

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  • popperpop

    My ex had that, granted he hadn't had sex in 3 years and his past partner cheated. I think he feared getting hurt again and his confidence was low from the past. I really cared about him so I offered to go down on him until he was hard. We later decided not to have sex then.
    However months later we had sex, it just happened. I think he wasn't nervous then because he had no time to think about it, we just went for it.

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    • Akell

      That's completely understandable! I feel so bad for the guy because they probably think we're setting there judging the hell out of them for a completely NORMAL thing.

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  • thegypsysailor

    Seriously, what's the worst that could happen? You ejaculate prematurely so you satisfy her however necessary. Chances are while you are doing that, your little feller is going to make a reappearance and everything should go swimmingly after that. Relax. It's supposed to be fun, not a competition or a test.

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    • Akell

      I'm a girl.

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      • thegypsysailor

        I'm sorry.
        So are you asking how to help a guy with 'stage fright'?

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        • Akell

          No. I'm just asking how common it is and to tell me your stories about it.

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          • thegypsysailor

            Sorry, it hasn't been my problem. My little fucker has always been too willing for my own good.

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

    never been ashameda nothin i were born with and always down to fuck unless ive had some booze

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  • Akell

    I've had it happen to me with a couple different guys, they weren't drunk or anything. They both just said they were REALLY Nervous. But both of them weren't very experienced either.

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  • yourdeepestshame

    It's never happened to me. I gotta be stone drunk not to be able to get it up.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    It happens it has a lot to do with stress levels.

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  • Steve2WantsTheManagement2Reply

    Sexual activity is not a performance. Just push your penis in and fuck until you've had enough and annoyed the neighbours. If you're lucky, you might receive one of a large selection of STDs as a bonus!

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