How much freedom should my boyfriend give me?

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so what should i do to stay in a relationship but let them know i want to keep all of my freedom. i want to be able to do everything i want to do,but also should respect what the do/dont prefer me to do. right? like if he doesnt want me to party ill have a hard time deciding if its my decision or if i should respect his opinion and not party so much. (thats just an example) is it his place to say what he would/wouldnt like to see me doing or is he trying to change me?? or does he just care?? please respond.

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  • nikkiclaire
    6 years ago

    If I were you I'd stay out of a serious relationship until you know more about your boundaries. Since you said you'd have a hard time differentiating your limits from those placed on you, you obviously don't know them yet.

    Have a few fun, non serious relationships and learn about yourself.

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  • MR.mr
    6 years ago

    Just my opinion.

    I think it's ok if you party with him, but I would say going out clubbing alone or with other guys is inappropriate.

    The only things that I realy insist on when I'm dating a girl is don't where slutty outfits(except in private for me)
    And don't spend time alone with someone of the opposite sex.

    Personally I think it's not about restricting your freedom so much as it's about simply showing respect to your partner and not putting yourself in inappropriate situations for a person in a relationship.

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