How many times

In your life, how many times have you confessed feelings to a crush?

(Before they've said what they feel for you, so making the first move)

Never 29
Once 26
A couple of times 20
Three or four times 10
Five or six times 4
Seven or eight times 0
Nine times 0
Over ten times 1
Way over ten times 3
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  • There was once I felt like I was going to have a crush, and I was told the person liked me aswell. She ended up being one of the people I was around most of the time in high school. I am not sure if I liked her as a person, but I found her attractive amazingly. I ended up making myself stop liking her in that way due to me not wanting to be in a relationship with anyone.

    I don't know if I liked her in that way due to her looks or personality, but my best bet is looks, her personality, now that I think back to her, was pretty irritating.

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  • mystery7

    One time after having a couple of glasses of wine around a camp fire, I confessed my feelings to a girl I'd had a crush on for ages.

    She rejected me that night, but the very next night, much to my surprise we both ended up naked and having hot sex! It was great at the time but it never went anywhere after that.

    I think telling people you have a crush on them just makes it much more likely they'll reject you.

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  • Jessie735513

    Twice. Both times ended badly. I don't think I'll ever do it again~it hurts too much

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  • Gasmasker

    Neverever forever never. Ever. At least not directly.

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  • missy18

    I have once, when I was 15. It felt so good to get off my chest I almost thought I'd stopped liking him, but he rejected me and went for this other girl in my class. Got over him after a few months, he was a douche anyway.

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  • dirtybirdy

    Not too often

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  • dom180

    Just once.

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  • shade_ilmaendu

    I've lost track, I don't know, never a whole lot of people because I'm just not good at that kind of thing. I'd rather someone come up to me, I've embarrassed myself too many times.

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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt

    I don't think I ever have. When I meet someone I like, there usually a spark between us that speaks for itself. None of us have to actually say "I like you". Then one of us will ask the other out on a date.

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    • Lana del rey wouldnt approve

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      • BlueJeansWhiteShirt

        Wouldn't approve of what lol?

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  • anti-hero

    Too many times.

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  • Boo!

    Never. I fell in love with someone who was in love with someone else. The thing is the person I was in love with had a broken heart because the one he liked already was going out with someone else. I didn't want to be rejected so I kept it to myself. :( Sadly ists been 2 years and I'm still in love with him and I broke our friendship so that I could move on yet its taking so long to do it.

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  • shuggy-chan

    every day that ends in "Y" i do

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  • dappled

    I never used to do it and never had much luck with girls. Now I often do it. Still don't have any luck with girls, though. ;)

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    • shade_ilmaendu

      Though I don't actually know what you look like, I find that kind of hard to believe. :P

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      • dappled

        Damn! I try not to double-talk here (even though I do it all the time in real-life). That one slipped through.

        The first "no luck with women" meant getting no women, and the second "no luck with women" meant getting women (but crazy ones, i.e. my ex). :D

        The English are swines for this kind of talk! I really do try hard to talk differently here, though. Guess you caught me out on one. :P

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