How many people have liked you
How many people in your life so far have admitted having a crush on you or have made advances on you?
0-5 | 94 | |
5-10 | 32 | |
10-15 | 17 | |
15-20 | 7 | |
20-25 | 3 | |
Over 30 | 4 | |
Over 50 | 12 |
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How many people in your life so far have admitted having a crush on you or have made advances on you?
0-5 | 94 | |
5-10 | 32 | |
10-15 | 17 | |
15-20 | 7 | |
20-25 | 3 | |
Over 30 | 4 | |
Over 50 | 12 |
Easy question, zero. Literally no girl has ever admitted to liking me beyond that of friendship. I'd like to believe that maybe there was this one girl, somewhere, who knew who I was and felt some sort of connection but was just too scared to say hi to me, but I doubt it. I doubt that any girl ever really liked me in that way, and honestly I don't really blame them. I'm an awesome guy but that took years, and being out of high school to sort of realize it. Most of the time people probably just saw this cocky low self esteem kid trying so hard to be cool, hell I recall one guy actually called me out on it. I couldn't say anything back to him cause he was right, it was all an act, I just wanted people to like me. I cared, and to an extent still do, what people think of me. But at the same time I don't either. I just wanted someone to give a shit about me but no one ever did, again beyond that of friendship. I made really good friends though in my life, people who actually do care about me and my life. These people cared and still do care about me. I cherish the close friends that I had, and still have, as a result. I considered those to be great friendships, and still do since I still hang out with these people. But as for a girl spending an extended period of time with me, yeah that's happened, but again its always been on a friendly level. I don't mind being friends with anyone, I have some good friends that are girls but gosh it's just annoying when a lot of girls tell you that you have a great personality. Over time you just sort of start taking it as an insult, like "I have a great personality, yet no one wants me, so am I ugly or something?" Questions like that just start popping in your head, and it's nobodies fault except yours.
Why hasn't anybody liked me? I consider myself to be a cool guy, but I don't want to be a cynic. It sucks having hope if nothing really good starts to happen. I wish I could say that one girl actually cared about me enough to touch me but no. No girl ever has. I value the friendships that I've made because I trust my friends and I know that they value me as a person. I focus on that, I focus on the wonderful people that I met in my life and say thank you to them. But then there are just times when I'm just lonely and wish somebody would tell me that I'm attractive and say that they want me, but that's where I picture a relationship comes into play. I could be wrong. I probably am. But it's just frustrating, even though plenty of people keep saying that I'm young. That doesn't help! It just makes me feel sort of sad, hopeful at the same time though. Mostly hopeful...
You are a cool guy, that much is evident by the way you treat people on this website. I believe someone is going to figure that out about you one day when you least expect it... and then, BAM, you'll be in a relationship with a nice girl. :)
Chicks dig confidence and self awareness, and you seem to have both of those going for you. I'm sure more girls than you think have liked you, even if it took years of sorting yourself out. You've got to love yourself before you can love someone else, and it appears you've got it all figured out.
Just a matter of time, my friend.
I can't even count ... Basically every man I meet and get close to. I was good looking in high school. In early 30s now and still told i'm good looking, but I don't get as much attention as I did in the early 20s, which is fine, 'cause it could be a bit intense sometimes. it was nice though ultimately.
I've been romantically involved with like 50 people so does that count? I am assuming that they liked me, even though not all of them professed their love for me verbally. I know they all must have had some level of attraction toward me. But idk.
there was a girl in the eighties who was so hot for me it was embarrassing. when she was an art student she took some close-up pictures of her cunt - no one else I know has ever seen them, I have. She was the easiest fuck I ever had, and she gave (for a girl) great blow-jobs. There's a school re-union next year - should be interesting.
no one has ever admitted to ever having a crush on me I am about to be 21 and still nothing - I Am A FEMAILE
I used to think no one liked me. But as I got older I figured out either with wisdom or by people telling me, that people have liked me in the past. This isn't always good news haha. 8/10 of these people were lame haha. regardless, everyone has been crushed on at one point or another. Whether they think so or not. Don't worry to much about it.
Seriously, zero people have admitted to liking me, I mean, there could be some people out there who secretly have a crush on me, but I wouldn't know unless they tell me.
That's fine though, I'm asexual and not interested in relationships.
I don't know. no one ever told me clearly they did.Its just that I have perceived that some people do like me but, who knows...
Lots of people try and make advances, not sure how many are actually crushing on me though
Once a girl, whom I hadn't met, had her friend ask for my cell phone number. As I didn't have a cell phone, it didn't go any further.
That's pretty much it.
On the other hand, I don't recall having made any advances or telling someone that I liked them, myself.
Let's see.
One in primary school when I was about nine years old and too young to be interested, and I turned her down in a way that probably seemed very cruel and hurtful although I didn't know any better at the time. She gave me cute anonymous Valentine's cards every year. I still vaguely know her, and she's a very nice person now. I would regret turning her down, but I really was too young to know any better so I don't dwell on it.
Then there was a long break, until I got a girlfriend when I was sixteen. So that's two. Then there's the girl I'm with now who my situation with keeps changing, but at the moment I suppose you'd say we're friends with benefits. She makes three. Then there's another couple of girls I don't know and have never met since from clubs, which probably makes five provided I'm not forgetting anyone.
Oh, and a guy in a gay club who gave me his number on a piece of paper. I can't remember what he looked like, and I'm not sure whether I regret turning him down or not. I tried calling him in the morning but, alas, no response.
So that makes six. That seems about right. It's more than I expected, and I suppose some of them are dubious. There's doubtless been more who haven't said anything. That's not me being arrogant, I just think it's quite unlikely that every single person who's ever liked me has told me about it. So we'll say six.
Oh, I was forgetting one earlier who I feel bad about forgetting because we're still friends. But after her I'm sure that's all of them. Seven.
No-one here really knows because I never feel like it's something worth telling people; my orientation is such a small part of my identity and it's not something that the world of IIN needs to know about. Unless I plan on having sex with any of you, which I can assure you you're all safe from :P
How I feel about my own sexuality changes all the time. Nowadays I very rarely label my own sexuality on IIN because I'm not sure about it myself. I feel like orientation can be fluid, at least for me personally: some days I'll feel only attracted to girls, some days it will be both to varying extents, and (rarely) it's only to guys. I've never had a relationship or done anything sexual with a guy; I've never seeked it out (I was with a friend in the gay club, accompanying him on his trip to my city with his university's LGBT society). Another word which might describe my sexuality besides "bi-curious" and "bisexual" is "heteroflexible", but even that doesn't cover it especially well. Sexuality is complicated for a lot of people, and I guess I'm one of them :P
I've lost count. There have been a few people, who in my childhood, had crushes on me but these people never publicly admitted their feelings for me. There was this strange Asian and seemingly bisexual girl that went to my summer camp. She was a total bitch towards me and asked for my number, which I gave, despite the fact that I don't think that she ever called me. Well, I later ended up finding out that this girl had a crush on me and suddenly all of the pieces started to fall into place.
There was this boy that I knew who was a few years younger than me. I also knew his one of his sisters who was a camp counsellor and her friend, who was also a camp counsellor and who was also her friend and rumored to be her lesbian lover… Anyway, her brother really liked me but it took me quite awhile before I picked up his behaviors. He too never admitted his feelings to me.
There were a few others, a few of which did express the desire to go out with me but, I turned them all down.
One that that has really stuck out for me, but also took me a long ass time to realize what was going on, was with a female friend who I met at that same summer camp. Around one Valentine's day, she texted me this very expressive and animated card. In it she was telling me how she loved me more than a fat person loved food, etc. Then at the end she told me to send it back due to the fact that it "cost money" and that she had other friend's to send it too. I think that end piece was bullshit and that she was just trying to cover herself.
Anyway, at the time it just didn't hit me that she had feelings for me. My mother on the other hand was weirded out and thought that she was a lesbian. There were other signs that I missed, but attributed as being due to other things. This girl struck me as being very emotionally unstable… I remember she once angrily texted me about how she was angry that I was home schooled and that I wasn't going to be in public high school. I confronted her about that and if I'm remembering correctly she told something along the lines of her wanting me to go to school with her, among other things. If I'd make an innocent suggestion she'd throw a bitch fit.
Now I wonder if she carried on in this matter, because she was worried about how I viewed her. I ended up having a severe relapse with anorexia a few years back and I didn't find her to be very supportive. In fact the relationship was temporally destroyed because of that and a simple misunderstanding about something else… It has just occurred to me that maybe the reason why she got so upset and made such a huge deal out of it was because she worried about me. The friendship resumed when our state got hit by an unexpected earthquake and she pored out her feelings to me. I think it was about how she didn't want to die/live without me,etc. Then there was a period where we stopped talking. Then one day she asked how I was doing. I realize now that I was being very cold to her, because it didn't occur to me exactly what was going on with her. I feel pretty bad about that now. Im fact, I think that I'll to patch up things with her. I just hope that she'll forgive me. It flatters me that had feelings for me for so long. However, what bothers me is that I've never had feelings for her… I just don't want the poor girl to get the wrong idea and think that there will be a chance of us being together when there will most likely never be.
Not too sure. Quite a few. I was stupid and turned them all down, save for one.
who the fuck keeps track? after a certain age you can't even remember half the people you have actually been with