How many of you cheat on your partner regularly?

Never done it and wouldn't. If I felt the need to go elsewhere I'd leave the relationship

I've been Married for 12 years and the truth is, with our special needs 10 year old daughter, my wife would be completely lost without me. Because of our situation, I REALLY can't leave her. The first 10 years we were together, we had sex practically EVERY single day, then after some surgery, she completely lost interest in Sex. So, for the past 4 years we've practically had ZERO intimacy. I've tried to get her to lose weight or use Hormone Replacement, counseling... Everything, but she refuses to do anything about the situation. For a while I felt like I was going absolutely crazy without sex and it was incredibly difficult for me. We started fight all the time and I realized that I resented her for not giving me what I felt I ABSOLUTELY needed. At one point my wife even said to me, "I wish you would just get yourself a fuck buddy and stop bothering me with this... I just don't want to know about it". Yet, when I threatened to leave her, she kind of "forced" herself to have sex with me, but I could tell that she really wasn't into it and was very uncomfortable, so I felt it was cruel to continue to make these kinds of demands on her.

Finally I ended up "Dating" an old friend of mine. She understands the relationship I'm in and only wants sex and some help with some bills. I've been seeing her for nearly a year now, about 2 or 3X a week. She gets what she needs I get what I need and my wife no longer has to put up with an angry sexually frustrated husband constantly asking for sex. Everyone is happy.

For all you judgmental people out there, what's worse? Should I continue to chide my wife for not doing her "wifely" duties? Should I simply leave her, even though her life would be MUCH more difficult without my help in raising our special needs daughter? Should I DEMAND that she have sex with me when she clearly doesn't want or desire it anymore? Should I break her heart and tell her, "Sorry babe, been cheatin on ya, since ya can't deliver the goods anymore"?

Never cheated and never will. I don't feel guilty about it because I never have. I really care about my boyfriend and I would never want to hurt him like that. I am extremely anti-cheating and I think it is completely wrong. If you are not happy in a relationship or feel you cannot be commited, leave the relationship or just go on dates with people and be non exclusive.

Nope! I like having a clear conscience and I wouldn't want it done to me.

Also, is it possible to cheat on your partner irregularly? Like maybe at a strange time or in an unusual position? Would that be irregular?

Infidelity is never a good thing. However, it is not all that unusual. While it's an incredibly hurtful thing, I personally have struggled with it in the past. For me, I've found that the more I like my partner, the easier it is not to cheat. For instance, I absolutely adored one of my ex-girlfriends (who I'm still really good friends with). I'm not totally sure why I did, but that was how I felt, and I never found it difficult to resist other girls' advances, because I was so happy with her. On the other hand, I briefly dated another girl who turned out to be very unstable, to the point that I was honestly a little scared of her, and I found myself to be really struggling not to cheat. But then it turned out that she was cheating on me anyway, so it feels like kind of a moot point. So, in my opinion, it's certainly normal, for the most part, but it's also certainly not admirable.

Fuck that when I meet a hot woman I can't wait to show her my dick and then pummel her with it lol. I'm young and not married I know it's not right but god blessed me with a nice big fat dick and I feel like god said steve take this huge cock and smash as many hot woman as u can lmao

You should do your best to not cheat. Cheating can hurt a lot of people.

There are different ways of cheating. One where it was deliberate, you liked someone else and you went for it--and the other is one of the accidental heat of the moment things. The cheating that happens by accident is the more forgivable one. In my experience cheating on purpose is moraless and draining. leads to nothing good or lasting...

I did in the beginning of my current relationship. I was in a REALLY bad place and thankfully he saw that. He forgave me, but just seeing him look that hurt I knew instantly I'd never do anything to hurt him like that again. And I never have since. You just have to care enough that you are hurting someone else deeply with your actions. I know for me, before when I was cheating, I would sort of justify my actions to myself. You know, saying to yourself, "its not cheating if I do ..." and that would carry on till I did cheat.

My wife has gone off sex since the menopause. She's gone all prudish will not give good head and is revolted at the thought of finishing the job and swallowing my cum. I'm not a bad looking guy and look after myself. I have lots of sexual energy and many fantasise I'd like to for fill but it will never happen with my wife.

So now I pay to play. No fuss no bother just real good on tap sex what ever I want when I want it naughty but nice. Good clean girls who fuck for cash Students, Nurses, all kinds, Polish, Blacks, Asians, Japanese girls who are only to happy to do what you want for an hour or two. I felt guilty at first but now it's just an exciting part of the week to look forward to. Many women think they can stop the sex and excitement when it suits them. But guys are always horny I've yet to meet a girl that has the same problem plus it's easier for a girl to get laid than a guy. Love don't come into it. I always go home and always will it just the sex that's good not the love.

I think for attractive girls it can be easy to cheat. When you constantly have guys hitting on you and you've been in one relationship for a long time it can be hard to say no. I personally have cheated once. My boyfriend knows and we have moved past it. I regret it and would never do it again.

It is always hot to make different girls naked watching their part and taking taste. Maximum love to eat different women but never admit. Sex ...love...relationship all are different things. Many guys have too much sexual urges but every partner may not satisfy. I admit that I regularly enjoy different girls in a hotel room. I cheated on my gf 1st time when I saw our new maid. I had sex with our maid many times. Yes I fucked many girls after my marriage. I love smell and taste of new pussy and butthole.

I'm bisexual. My gf knows. So she will periodically let me step out if she isn't in the mood for a 3sum. I don't consider it cheating if everyone knows about it ahead of time though. It's only cheating if u lie and deceive and be a sneaky little shiester about it. I'll always pick someone that's attractive but morally reprehensible so there is no way I'll get attached. I have no problem separating my heart from my dick, but why take any chances? I love my girlfriend more than anything in this world so I let her hold the reins when it comes to this subject, because I know it's a god send to find any woman that's okay with physically sharing the man she loves.

I'd like some more input on this. In the last 5 weeks I've cheated 4 times, with 4 different women. Hopefully will again this weekend, too.

Hell yeah I do it everyday. She more then likely doin the same thing to. I'm a big freak

There's nothing wrong with the relationship I have with my GF. I just want sex with other women. Most guys want it, but I actually do it.

I'm actually very surprised by these answers. I cheated once last month, and probably will again this week.

I have only ever cheated by using hookers, that way I know I will get away with it. Guaranteed not to have anyone calling or texting, simply go and pay for sex when the GF is at work and a good looking hooker is available.

I am married 13 years now and we don't have any sex anymore because my wife thinks I'm to big I think of cheating but as of this point I have not

My wife is a prude and only has sex for procreation purposes. I havehad dozens of different girls/women in the 12 years of marriage.

I use to every week for 11 months and another guy every week for over a year. Now I'm engaged and happy and I don't cheat. It is better that way

I've never had anyone to cheat on and even if I did, I still wouldn't.

If things weren't working out I'd tell them and maybe if we were both willing, go to couples therapy.