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Feel free to elaborate in comments. How much do you take into account the effects of what you do and say on others?
I'd say that they matter but when they make it clear that my feelings don't matter to them, I'm more likely to give em shit right back if they're going to do me that way.
Well if my feelings matter so do other's feelings. Everyone is an other for rest of the world.
Believing others feelings don't matter is like saying...
'Don't cross oceans for people who wouldn't cross puddles for you.'
No, do it. Do cross oceans for people. Love people, all people. No conditions attached, no wondering whether or not they're worthy. Cross oceans, climb mountains. Life and love isn't about what you gain, it's about what you give.
-D.M.
xoxo
people are either obstacles or beneficial. keep up a charming facade and you can gain control of the emotions of anyone and can make them do alot of things. peoples feelings are only important when it is to my advantage. otherwise, they can go die.
That's a mouthful, Fenrirr. I wonder if you believe you're the only one who feels that way, and whether you think, therefore, others aren't manipulating you, too.
They could be, possibly. There are alot of manipulators in the world, although it's actually quite easy to determine if they are one or not. Usually their mannerisms or how they express themselves can give suspicion, though it's easier to tell if they are one by the length of time spent with them.
I've probably been beat in my own game in the past occasionally, however it's been a while since someone attempted to use me.
Well, guess it's a lesson I need to learn. I got cheated out of thousands by my roommate who I thought was a good friend. Maybe if I had a bit more of your edge in me I'd still have my cash. Sad to say, I look at nearly everyone with MAJOR suspicion nowadays. And I'm not even 20 yet. :/
Wow, really? That sucks. Well it is kind of good to be suspicious of people at first and not put your full trust in them at the start, because then you won't be let down that hard if they do turn out to be a user of some sort.
Of course not everyone will be like that, admittedly I may have been a bit harsh in my first post, as I do truly care for a few people in my life.