How long should you wait before having sex with a new partner?
| First date | 20 | |
| First week | 5 | |
| Second - third week | 11 | |
| One month | 16 | |
| Two - three months | 6 | |
| Four - five months | 5 | |
| 6 months | 2 | |
| 6 months - one year | 4 | |
| One year + | 4 | |
| Marriage | 11 |
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| First date | 20 | |
| First week | 5 | |
| Second - third week | 11 | |
| One month | 16 | |
| Two - three months | 6 | |
| Four - five months | 5 | |
| 6 months | 2 | |
| 6 months - one year | 4 | |
| One year + | 4 | |
| Marriage | 11 |
You need to leave it until after you leave the restaurant. Who'd have thought we were going to get arrested for getting jiggy behind the ficus plant?
No, seriously, I like to wait. Let the tension build. I'm never in a rush to get someone into bed. Those guys that are, I always think it looks like they're desperate to get the deal done so they can move onto the next conquest.
If you feel like you want to have sex with the person, think about it for a minute. If you don't feel like you will regret it, and you think you will still love yourself afterwards, go for it! Sex is a very fun and natural act and you should be able to feel when your ready! Sex is not a bad thing as long as you do it safely (condom, birth control, clean trustworthy partner, ect.)
Get to know them first. Wait for it, don't rush into things. Setting the limit until you're married wouldn't really work out, because the relationship might not make it to the level of marriage. I feel like a few weeks is too soon, for some reason. Perhaps, a month. It gives you time to learn about your lover and decide whether or not you can trust he/she.
umm.. until you love that person or trust that person enough.. i don't think most people have a strict time period..
I'd be "willing" to wait several months for a good person.
I've never had to wait more than 2 weeks.
I'd like to say that's a good thing but I don't like sluts. I'd actually rather a girl make me wait. I guess I'm very old fashioned in my thinking.
you should wait until your married but if you do not wait that long then give it about a couple months.
Most of my relationships have been on the first night, but some I have waited till she was ready. The ones I bedded on the first night were the relationships that lasted the longest
There should be an other option, cause it really depends on how into whoever it is you are
There's no right or wrong answer, you'll know yourself when the time's right. x
Time shouldn't matter on this part. It should be till you two know eachother well and know you two love each other then the right moment will come.
When it feels appropriate, the right moment. I think this depends on the couple. Some people take a while to become physically close, others start their relationship that way.
There's no 30 minutes option? That's pretty much enough for a one night stand.
For women it's whenever you feel comfortable enough.
For men, it's whenever you can get it.