How long should one wait before having sex with a new guy?

I slept with one of my guy friends while out drinking one night. It meant nothing, we even said this during.

However I ran into a old crush and we really hit it off. I didn't want to initiate anything since it hadn't been that long ago that I had slept with someone else. How long is the appropriate time to wait?

If it meant nothing and the new guy was perfect time doesnt matter. 17
One week. 4
Two weeks. 0
A month. 10
Several months. 12
Other (Add a comment) 4
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Comments ( 8 )
  • Dump the calendar...when it feels appropriate to both.

    Could be five weeks, could be five minutes.

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  • agreee with rick2101 wait 4 marriage :D

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  • Ryan556

    When your comftorbal outher then my first time it was relly romantic

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  • TylerDurden91

    I say if he wants it (he does unless you're hideous), and you want it, then there is no certain amount to wait.

    The only way it could be "too close" to you sleeping with your guy friend is if you still had cum stains on your sheets.

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  • shadowmario

    when u think the time is right

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  • YBNormal

    Your poll and your post ask two different questions. I'm answering the one in your post:

    Since you slept with your friend basically just to have something to do ("it meant nothing"), I don't feel that there's any reason to wait before being intimate with someone new that you really like and want to be with not because you're bored and horny but because you have feelings for each other.

    This assumes that you're using protection against disease, know that your friend is disease free, and know that you are, too.

    If you were with your friend because you loved him and the sex had meaning, I would say it's appropriate to have a waiting period between partners. Appropriate, but even that rarely happens, so ultimately it's up to what you feel. It's a sure bet your friend isn't waiting before finding somene else to sleep wiht.

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    • YBNormal

      with*

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  • rick12101

    married first,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

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