How long in between partners?

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I recently had a girl accuse me of being a sex addict. Our short lived relationship was doomed because she felt like I shouldn't have started dating her considering I had been casually dating someone up until the week before her. I have been single for the last two years and with the exception of the first few months I have been hooking up with one or more women at a rate of about one encounter a week. There have been a few random hook ups scattered but for the most part it has been casual dating or friends with benifits. She said she has gone more than a year. I think the whole thing is bs.

Male, I go 6-12 months in between partners. 23
Male, I go 1-5 months in between partners. 18
Male, I go less than 1 month in between partners. 14
Male, I usually overlap partners until it's serious. 21
Female, I go 6-12 months in between partners. 15
Female, I go 1-5 months in between partners. 19
Female, I go less than 1 month in between partners. 10
Female, I usually overlap partners until it's serious. 13
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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago | pl

    How do you manage to find a different girl to hook up with every week? Its been 1 1/2 years for me and I go out to parties and events several times a week.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      Quit looking for it. Let it come to you.

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    • RomeoDeMontague
      10 years ago

      This kind of thing isn't hard depending on what your like. Its generally easier if you date within a circle of friends.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      And dress nice. Maybe hit the gym of you need to. Plus confidence is key. Most women don't care what your face looks like as long as you aren't a lazy lop and you take care of yourself. Be funny.

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  • throat_cutter
    10 years ago

    Well there you go shes on the edge and trying to watch out for herself if she knows your history and you say you've hooked up with different girl every week then yes shes going to think twice about you and not want to go there

    but yeah different girl every week thats "not your average" and you should def check urself for an std before you hook up with this girl, cuz if u get her an std shell be PISSED, if u havent already!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      Its not a new girl every week. I recycle.

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      • throat_cutter
        10 years ago

        dont matter if u recycle mane

        you dont kno if your recycled girls have slept with five guys in between they come rotate back to you.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          10 years ago

          Well do you really know if your girlfriend hasn't done the same thing before or during your relationship. Its life.

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          • throat_cutter
            10 years ago

            aye.

            The difference is that i stick wit one you my man are at greater odds incrase it five fold more than me whence you recycle dem hoezz

            but meh. its ur life. cheers! to chlamydia and friends

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  • juniperlei
    10 years ago

    I could go my whole life without sex lol :P Asexual and proud :D

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    • RoseIsabella
      10 years ago

      I envy you.

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    Actually, you do sound like a sex addict. I hope you use condoms!

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      My jumbo loads fill the entire reservoir tip.

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      • RoseIsabella
        10 years ago

        I'm glad to see you use protection.

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  • GreyWulfen
    10 years ago

    I think that a few months are WAY too short to find a new partner that truly fits you. Many people are sad after a relationship goes down and try to find a new partner asap, but that's the wrong way imo. Waiting for the right partner can take months or even years.
    I really can't understand people that have a new partner two weeks after their last relationship - I could bet for sure that these relationships aren't gonna last long.

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    If you broke up with the other chick I don't see the issue with it. If you date someone break up and date someone else the next week its over. However generally this might not be the greatest idea for most people since it puts you on rebound. I kind of tried dating again after someone I had a huge crush on broke up with me. The relationship I had after that was not very good and while I don't think it was entirely my fault I think the fact I lost someone a week before was partially the reason for it.

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  • driedroses
    10 years ago

    I've never actually thought about time between partners before.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    2 hours apparently.

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  • IMissMary
    7 years ago

    Usually a day or two.

    Break up then take a shower to wash them down the drain. Comb the house for any left over crap then throw away. Change the sheets and I'm ready.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    10 years ago

    minimum of 1 months usually
    although after one relationship that hurt deeply... it was a few years.

    well not counting chat & cam that is ;-)

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago

    Where's the male: it takes me years to find someone else option?

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    10 years ago

    Ok just to clear some things up yes I use protection and its not a new girl every week. I recycle and sometimes I juggle. I guess by looking at the results so far she was more or less right. The problem she had with it was that we were hanging out in the same places.

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