How long do you think two people should date in order to get married?

2-7 months 21
8-11 months 43
A year 117
2 years 172
More than two years 223
A week 33
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  • 2 years +

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  • mjh1288

    i say get drunk and go ta vegas and get married in less than 2 days at least that way u start ur marriage off right....drunk haha

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    • coolio75650932

      lol

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  • It really depends.
    I think 2yrs+ (:

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  • landypandy

    i dont think there should be a specific amount of time you need to date before getting married. however long it takes you to realize you truly love someone and want to spend the rest of your life with them.

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  • crazykittens

    2 yrs

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  • BlueAlice

    Five years. Absolute minimum. Probably even ten years minimum.

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  • hannahreese87

    I got married at a really young age. and i figure screw it, i might as well have sex with this guy a lot and use him for money. so much easier.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    at least a year.

    i've seen couples who dated for just a month (sometimes they barely even knew each other) who got married.

    most of them had very messy dramatic divorces.

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  • westoptic

    My sister is getting married and shes only been with her fiancee for a year, and he's been overseas most of the time with the military, but it's pretty obvious they only have eyes for each other and she's had boyfriends before who I just knew were douche bags deep down, and this guy she's with now is just like my brother. I think it all depends on the person, some people need more time, others can make the decision sooner.

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  • Anybody who said less then a year has probably not been in a long term relationship.

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  • Mando

    I think you need a year or 2 but much more than that and you are avoiding the issue.

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  • davesumba

    anything less than 2 years is bound to fail.

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  • coolio75650932

    when you are both ready

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  • Who_Fan4Life

    There's no set timetable, per se.

    As long as it takes to make the final decision.

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  • DiscoDuck

    forever.

    after forever is over then get married.

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  • shade_ilmaendu

    The most accurate article Ive ever read explained that 2 and a half years is a good minimum for getting to know how you will work with someone in the long term. But really its more invididual than that, some couples never feel the need to have their union validated by the state.

    Still, Id want the benefits that come along with marriage at some point in the future. Hospital visits and all that.

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  • FreeWilly69

    I think about 3 years, although Ive been with my boyfriend for like nearly 4 years and he still doesnt want to marry me it makes me oh so sad :(

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  • Ankoku

    id wait 7 years minimum

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  • Noonesperfect

    At first sight.

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  • Mrman10

    5 minutes.

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    • coolio75650932

      you mean the 5 minute quiky then prepose XD

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  • Jeci_Cassidy

    Me and my husband dated a year before we got married, and then four months into our marriage I got pregnant and we only have 8 weeks until our son gets here. ^_^

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  • vipgowns

    more or less one year!

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  • b454

    It depends really. You should wait a while, but some people just click right away and it works for them.

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  • randomrandomusername

    at least four

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  • CrazyLaugh7

    purdyy much,
    forever :)

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  • 2-7 months

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  • onlyemperor

    my cousin dated only 10 months and they have three kids how and live happily for already almost 10 years.. i think it depends on the personality. if ppl want to settle, itll work out anyway

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  • geek_god_101

    According to the divorce rate, probably not marrying is best in order to avoid child support and alimony.

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