How long do guys normally last?
How long do you/your bfs last when you guys have sex? Is it normally more than 20 minutes?
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How long do you/your bfs last when you guys have sex? Is it normally more than 20 minutes?
Of the 30 or so that I have been with, only a couple 'lasted' more than 20 minutes, and one lasted WAY longer(he kept putting coke on his p-p) than I was even enjoying, sorry for TMI. Anyway, if it is a problem, you have to find his 'trigger'. My last guy's was located right above his tailbone. All I had to do was lightly tickle/touch there, and BOOM! we were done, lights out, go to sleep! ROFL But on the other hand, if you DO enjoy it, don't get used to it, because it's not usually the case as they get older.
There's a condition that a few guys have called retarded ejaculation, which is pretty much the opposite of premature ejaculation. Guys find it extremely hard to orgasm when having sex and they need much more time. It's not that common but I have it and it sucks, can take up to 2 hours =(
But my girlfriend doesn't mind so much... lol
A guy who hasn't had sex in a while will cum faster than if he just had sex. Time between climaxes matters.
Yes, every orgasm means the next one will take longer. Eventually you simply run out...some guys won't get hard again, and those that do...can't climax.
Younger guys are easier, it's all friction stimulation.
Older guys (late 20's to late 40's) require a "trigger" (to borrow from Abbinormal up there). Some guys it's mental -- dirty talk, porn, fantasy, etc. Some guys it's physical...hitting the right spot.
time is a matter of circumstances. I'm older and my ex boyfriend and I would stay in bed all day on rainy days going for hours at a time. then sometimes it was quick as in 20 min.so I quess if your young quick is normal try more foreplay
well i had heard the most is 40 or the most,most is 1 hour and half. good luck!
I just started having sex, but my boyfriend can go for different amount of times. Sometimes he's a "two pump chump" and sometimes he can go for a half hour if not more. If a guy jerks off in the morning, I hear it makes them go a lot longer later that night.
Ok, so it IS normal not to last more than 20 minutes :) I was just wondering, because im young and my bf does NOT last longer than 15 minutes, so :P thanks