How "friendly" are you to people

Ok.....Like Chris Rock says when you meet someone you don't meet them....you meet their representative.....in a way that's true but some people are geniuely friendly, some are fake friendly (we all know those), and some who are hospitable....how do you all go about your social with people

Try my best to be friendly, but if i can't with one i won't 52
I only talk to people I like.....F*&K everyone else 12
I want to be friends with everyone...and they will be friends with me 17
I'm a people person 6
More hospitable.....I don't really want to be your friend 24
I'm not friendly at all...if I don't like you...I don't like you.... 12
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  • somaspecialist

    I try to be cool with everyone....however there's only a few I have close relationships with. At work...I'm just hi and bye to everyone. I only really talk to 5 people in my office. I grew up with manners so I try to give everyone a chance to get to know me and try to relate to them. But if we don't that's okay with me.....as long as were civil.

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    • House

      exactly!that's how i go about being friendly or polite.

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  • Uzzie101

    I'm only friendly to my friends. I keep strangers at an acceptable distance until I'm sure they're not false. I don't put on a show, but I won't let you into my world either. I'm not what you'd call a "people person".

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  • dappled

    Where I'm from makes me friendly and helpful. Comedians from the other end of the country joke that if they ask one of us for directions, we'll get in the car and show them. Whereas when I was in the capital with a broken foot, going up a tiny little escalator (and obviously not running), someone behind me snarked, "Move out of my way, you cretin. Every second on this thing is costing me a million pounds" and the next day a woman insulted me for admiring a building.

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  • myownopinions

    1) What's F*&K?
    2) I only talk to people that talk to me first. I'm pretty antisocial, so even when I do *clcik* with poeple, I don't usually become friends unless they decide to keep talking to me.
    3) If I don't *click* with the person that I talk to, then I usually give short answers but try to stay polite.

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  • EbonySheep

    You never know when you'll see someone again. It's best to be nice. If you really don't like people, think of it this way: when you're an ass and someone is nice to you, you generally feel more like an ass and then fix your behavior. So really, by being nice you get to solve an attitude problem AND be spiteful, the best of both worlds. :)

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  • Legion

    I always start out nice with people i meet. After a little while, if they are still nice, i will still be nice to them. Start being a asshole to me however, and ill will return the favor.

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  • im not going out of my way to be friendly but i don't have any enemies. im usually cool with everyone.

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  • bichonsrock

    I try to be civil with everyone at work, I have a couple close friends who I do talk to
    and one person I cant stand

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  • imacomputer

    I try to be cool with everyone, but some people's insecurities make them seem bitchy or assholish. It's usually not personal.

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  • Imheretopreach

    If they talk to me I keep my answers short and look away impatiently. People suck and if I could have it my way I would carry a lethal weapon and use deadly force on all.

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  • Joro

    I think I'm too friendly. Too friendly to the point people think I'm gay when they first meet me :/

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  • skywards

    People say I am a bit tactless. ^^ So when I just meet someone who I do not hate.. I tend to not talk at all. I listen though.. and remember lots of things. I may converse but very seldom about myself.

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  • Malice27

    I learned early in life that most people are just big disappointments....So i went with I only talk to people I like and f*ck everybody else....so far it's workin for me.

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  • wigsplitz

    Eh, it's not so much that I'm "fake" with people, it's more that I'm cordial....it's more what happens past the first few minutes (untill I have a decent assessment of what THEY'RE like...) then I'll let them know much about me. I have a lot of people experience, and I know how to know a person before they are (allowed) to know me so...I think that's the best way to go...Make sure I'M in charge of the aqquaintance and then proceed accordingly....

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    • wigsplitz

      heh, if only you idiots who put all your cards on the table upfront knew...lol, mwahhahahahha

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  • howaminotmyself

    I'll talk to anybody.

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