How far do you go with someone you like before you become couple?

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You know that awkward-ish stage where its obvious that you like each other, but you're not a couple yet? How far do you usually go with the person during that time?

I'll only flirt 18
I'll only kiss 15
I'll make out and let them feel me up 23
I'll have sex before we're official 20
Other 7
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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    11 years ago

    Depends on how old you are really.

    If you're a kid, like under 12 or something, if a girl even talks to you, you're basically already dating.
    As you get older though you do more intimate shit before you date, so like maybe 14-16 flirting, 16-18 2nd base, and then when you're an adult you usually have sex with somebody you like (probably a few times) before you're "official".

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  • Darkoil
    11 years ago

    If I like a girl then I will ask her out straight away which is what I did with my current girlfriend. For the couple of years before that while I was single I would always explain to girls that we would only be having sex and I wanted nothing more.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Good for you! Most guys just string girls along so they think they have a chance. From a girl's perspective... This is much appreciated.

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      • Darkoil
        11 years ago

        Yeah I'm still really good friends with most of the girls I used to sleep with on a regular basis.

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    11 years ago

    Honestly it just depends on the person. Recently I was "talking" to this dude for a few weeks and we flirted, made out, fooled around a little and that was it.

    My last boyfriend (still kinda together? Its complicated) and I had an odd development... hung out a few times randomly through mutual friends. Went to open mic night, he came back with us.... we hooked up, did the fwb thing for a few weeks, then realised we're wayy past fuck buddies in how we feel about each other.

    I don't think the development has hurt us at all, the fact that we're still (unoficially) together even after some disagreements just kinda goes to reinforce that.

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  • forever_anon
    11 years ago

    It depends on the person. If I was comfortable and felt a connection with the person, I would go all the way. On the other hand, if I wasn't sure about him yet, I wouldn't go any further than the make out stage.

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    • thepearl
      11 years ago

      AGREE

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    I feel like the kiss kinda leads into the dating. After you kiss it makes a little easier to ask "Are we going out?"

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  • mixwell
    11 years ago

    As an adult I've always fucked the girl in our seeing each other phase before asking her out.

    You always test drive a car before you buy it, same principle to me.

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