How does one lady ask another female out?

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Is it normal I'm 22 and not sure how to approach and ask out an attractive girl or someone I like? I've actually never dated but considering all my past crushes were guys and of more recent, I had 2 major crushes on girls. I think that makes me bi ? I haven't experimented though.I don't think it's as simple as asking a guy out as majority of girls are straight ! Besides its way more awkward! Its not like u can go up to someone and say "Hey are u lez, or bi?" If so, can I date u? Even if I develop a strong friendship with another female again, I seriously would be afraid to flirt with her without knowing her sexuality. How do lesbian couples meet? Who asks who ? Lol

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  • ogrelord
    7 years ago

    u wanna lick my clam

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Eat you're own clam chowder

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  • Faceless
    7 years ago

    coffee. then chloroform.

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    Ask as if you're asking a friend to say, see a movie with you. See it as two women friends going to something together, not as a date.

    The best way to find out if she's lesbian or bi is to casually mention your own sexuality and see how she responds. If it's with revulsion forget it, but if she seems interested take it a bit further with a longer than normal good night hug.

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  • fluffy1uv
    7 years ago

    Okay so here's what i do as a gay guy: start off with something not directly asking them their sexuality but also bringing it up: "so an attractive girl like you just already be taken huh?" That way instead of saying that they're straight, which they might, they also have the option of simply saying that they have a bf. If they say no they aren't taken, you don't have to be awkward and ask them if they're gay, just simply ask to go to a coffee house some time, they'll know you mean that it's a date.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Thanks for your advice! That's still awkward as though :/

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      • fluffy1uv
        7 years ago

        True! You have to just have confidence and realize if they reject you, it doesn't mean you failed, it means you just sent their type. Look at it like this: if nothing else, you'll give someone a nice compliment, make them feel good for a lil bit.

        Take the leap, change can't happen without taking risks and being hurt.

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  • breanna95
    7 years ago

    Im not gay, but you should indirectly ask her about her sexuality first, before making an approach. Especially if its a close friend.

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  • hgjukbjk
    7 years ago

    Is you lez

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Could be , why

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  • rep14
    7 years ago

    Seems like something you just find out after getting to be close friends with them, start to get gay come on slowly, and see if they mind or not.

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  • TheManWhoHauntedGhosts
    7 years ago

    Lesbian dating site.

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