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How do you find people(especially women) act when they reach 30+ ?
| Mature and serious | 20 | |
| Snobbish and rude | 6 | |
| Immature | 10 | |
| Mean | 0 | |
| Other (Add a comment) | 0 | |
| Still young | 16 | |
| Self-centered | 4 | |
| No longer sweet | 6 | |
| I don't know | 13 | |
| I am 30 and i am most of above | 7 | |
| I am 30 and i am non of the above | 4 | |
| Most of the above | 7 | |
| It depends on the individual | 52 | |
| Non of the above | 7 |
From personal experience, if they're not married they go on a manhunt. They're insanely interested in every detail of your life but mostly about your future. Is your job secure, do you want kids, shall we have a joint account? You ignore the fact that you just met this woman six minutes ago. I want a boy first, she says, then a girl, then another boy. You only came here for a beer. You met her by chance because you have a mutual friend. Now she's telling you what children she wants and there's a look in her eye that says she wants them with you. You wonder what colour her underwear is. What sort of illnesses run in your family, she says. Says. Not thinks. Says. This was an expressed thought. You wonder if you can pretend to faint. What are the odds she'll go away? And what are the odds she'll give you the kiss of life and then tell you she's going to tell this story to your grandchildren? Say something kinky, you think. Say something kinky, she thinks. She tells you she once had sex with four men on the same day. That's not kinky, you think. That's either loose or careless. I'm just getting another drink, you say. Escape tactic. Gin and tonic for me, she says. Denied. You're stuck with her for the next fifty years until you breathe your last and they cremate you even though you said you don't want cremation, but that's what they do in her family and she knows that's what you really wanted. As the flames creep higher, you realise you should have told her - all those years ago - you had a partner. It wouldn't have thrown her off the hunt. Say it's a male partner. Maybe. You both have HIV. Some will still hang in. You should have told her you believe in feminism and that women should always pay for themselves on dates, and pay for the men too in order to even up all those years of inequality and men paying for everything. Click. You got her. She's out of the door. But, as the flames creep higher, you realise you're fifty years too late.
I'm staying home this Friday and Saturday night. It's safer here.
Unless she finds out where I live. The attack music from the film Jaws now plays.
I agree with the majority here saying it depends on the individual. I would say, though, that as people mature they tend to grow in confidence and authority. As your life experience grows, things tend to become a little clearer. You know what you want and like and are no longer willing to put up with quite as much BS and time wasters. We should be very careful with double standards, as far as the genders are concerned. Even though we supposedly enjoy gender equality, in reality women are still denied opportunities enjoyed by their male peers. Is it any wonder they experience frustration? I don't think we should write them off as bitter and mean, but try to understand their situation better instead
I have an annoying 30 something year old sis , she's mean and bitter and bossy , i guess alot of women in thier 30's share the same things .
Being only 22 whenever i get with a women whose 30 they always seem to be really grateful for the attention off someone younger but really act no different to 25 year olds when we get down to it.
They're a hell of a lot better than the bitches/whores(17-24)you see at the fucken malls,beaches,etc.and whereever they decide to congregate...always waiting for the guys to buy and pay for all the damn shit that they want.