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I`m a girl. I`ve been wanting to tell the guy I like him but I just don`t know how... HELP ME OUT!
| Text him/her | 8 | |
| Call him/her up | 0 | |
| Tell them face to face | 44 | |
| Ask someone else to tell them you like him/her | 9 | |
| Honestly, I wouldn`t know what to do | 17 | |
| Write it on paper and give it him/her anonymously | 3 |
"Dear Johnny, would you like to go out with Crystal? Please circle yes or no."
I'm one of those people who wouldn't know what to do in these types of situations. There has been times when I told someone that I love them and they rejected me. Then there's been times when people confessed that they used to have a crush on me, but now they're taken.
I wish I had more guts to tell people when I liked them because each time I had a crush on a guy, he would end up getting a girlfriend within that same week. Then I'll be sitting next to them during lunch (because those girls were often my friends) being all like 'forever alone'.
Don't worry so much.
Be friends first.
You won't keel over and die - even if it hurts - if you don't get him. But if you try to be friends first you can get over the original awkward stages before risking romance.
and then if romance happens it means even more because it's not just someone you're attracted to, but someone you truly like.
I'd honestly say no clue, though I think face to face is best. The thing I always seem to get is where me and a girl both seem to realize that the other likes them, but we never really make anything definite of it, so it always seems to fall apart for me before it begins. I know the right answer is to just tell them, but I'm the sort of person who doesn't want to make myself vulnerable to rejection, unless I'm almost sure.
I wouldn't ask a friend,text or call because if you are friendly before asking, this guy might mistake it as a joke and not be serious about his reply, but face to face he will get that your serious. Just pull him off from everyone(one on one) and tell him your feelings, don't ask for an answer straight away because putting a guy on the spot may not always work, so tell him to tell you his answer some time in the future and if you see him casually on a everyday basis act normal and don't SHY away from him. because if he says no he knows that you will still be able to be friends and it will make the decision easier and not rushed or forced. (I am a guy:) )
Whatever you do, be subtle.
Don't ever be so obvious that anyone can ever prove anything about your intent.
I've had friends ask guys out for me when I was at high school/secondary school but when I was 15, I asked my crush out face to face. He said no, which did make me :( but I felt empowered and independent for doing it myself. Plus it's much more personal and I just think if you like someone, take a chance.
There's only two possibilities, yes or no.
to get what you want most you have to put your pride on the line be confident assertive and say what you need to to achive what it is you want, the whats the worst that can be said? and if he is nasty to you about it clearly not somone ud want to be with anyhow, the worst that can be said is im sorry i dont feel the same way, and yes it wont feel pleasant but atleast you will know :)
I didn't know how to vote.. haha at Soccerstud… VAG can mean many things.. to me… VAG is Volkswagen AG
Anyways… Texting - Sign of weakness… I am dating who I am dating because they can talk to me… NOT because of their texting skills. The problem with today is we are all ok with Texting or messaging, emails, or social networking and it takes away from the human interaction
Calling them is ok - HOWEVER, I think you can be more creative than that!
Asking someone else to tell them is just as weak as Texting…
Writing is a great way to voice your opinion without interruption and saying what you want to say… I tend to WRITE <-- this means you HAND WRITE it and not type it ;) this method lets me get everything out and I don't get interrupted by him or anyone else… BUT… Don't just write a note… Anyone can do that… Be creative and rather than write a note, give them a task… find out what the likes are and tie that into it. Example - When I told my buddy that I liked him (after little hints that he liked me) I took him to places that were gave us a great view of the city (cleveland) out on the water and just talked… And we went on drives just having amazing talks… This gave us a fantastic friendship base. Because I didn't know what he was thinking soooo I didn't want to make moves on him without knowing… if they like you, you will know after a few good talks and just you being awesome and amazing!