How do you tell a guy you lost intrest in him??

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My boyfriend travelled to Asia for work.. It's been months of a long distance relationship.. Now I feel disconnected.. I've lost all my intrest in him completely, we talk all the time and we are out of things to talk about, I even suggested a break which lasted a week and we started talking again.. During the break I never missed him even for a minute.. I want this to end completely ... Should I tell him that im not intrested and i want to see other people ? He wanted us to move in together as soon as he comes back which is in three months.. Do I tell him I have no intrest or come up with another explanation?

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  • dirtybirdy
    7 years ago | pl

    Honesty is a good thing. It's hard but you'll both be better off in the end.

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    The direct method is the best. Don't be passive aggressive and just stop taking his calls. Be mature and take responsibility.

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  • Digsbie
    7 years ago

    the cold hard truth is always best

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  • SeafoamColors
    7 years ago

    Tell him the truth. You don't want to be held in a relationship with no love.

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  • AlcoholMixedWithValerian
    7 years ago

    Just straight up tell him, i no longer love you. It hurts, but its the truth.

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  • cutegalsly
    7 years ago

    That's all I have to do.. I'll call him today..

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  • umph
    7 years ago

    The poor fellow did not wrong you in any way.
    It is simply cruel to dump him with no reason.
    You must have a real reason to dump someone, like cheating, violence, etc.

    Wait another three month and see if you fall in love with him again. You owe at least that to a relationship.

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    • mysistersshadow
      7 years ago

      That ridiculous if your done your done not being intetested anymore is all the reason you need.

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  • Cockticus_Erecticus
    7 years ago

    If the guy has already had sex with you than he really shouldn't care one way or another. I know I wouldn't.

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    • cutegalsly
      7 years ago

      Lol.. Funny opinion ..

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  • Bitchymitchy
    7 years ago

    Telling him straight up is better than leading him on

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  • Dreamsao
    7 years ago

    Tell it like it is. The faster you get it over with, the better.

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  • jethro
    7 years ago

    Just say these two words to him... Good By. Then leave and don't look back. Like the song goes. There must be 50 ways to leave your lover.

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