How do you stop feeling hurt when the person you like is with someone else?

I love my friend but I know he'll never return my feelings. He's in the dating scene and I can't stop feeling hurt and jealous every time he brings up a girl he's talking to.

He's aware of my feelings and we've hashed it out several times, but I can't get over this. I just want to be cool with it like any friend.

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  • SwickDinging

    You might need to let this friendship fade. If you really can't see yourself getting over your feelings for him then you will only be unhappy when you are with him.

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  • ellnell

    I would advice you just give it time, maybe take a break from spending so much time together and get used to him dating people. Also tell him to stop talking about girls he's dating. I can't see how he can even do that in the first place when he knows how you feel. Either you can get over the feelings or it's probably best to not be friends anymore.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Maybe you can't be just friends with this person? Just remember you are not in love with this person, it's just a crush. I know it hurts, but whenever you start pining for this person, and thinking that you're in love with him remind yourself that he does not share your feelings, and it's just a crush, or infatuation.

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  • Tommythecaty

    Fuck other people and you just sort of forget them sooner or later

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