How do you respond to "panhandling" (homeless people begging for $)

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  • Faceless

    I usually give them what they ask for be it spare change or a cig if I can spare it. Then I give them a smile and tell them good luck... before I light them on fire.

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    • blueglobe_

      Admit it. It's their loins you light on fire. Technically, you are still lighting them on fire.

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    • oh my....

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  • Curious2know

    I used to be all against giving money, just food etc. Then I read ''give unto every man that asks of you when it is in your power to give'' and realized there are no conditions in that verse. So now I give give give.. how can I argue that... :)

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  • blahfase2

    always give homeless people food instead of money.

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    • imtherealmattlewis

      I like to hold out a dollar, then start a run on topic changing conversation about the war, or whatever... when they start to comment I change the subject. This goes on for a while and they start to go to the "next guy" ill say "hey did u want this dollar?" They turn around come back and I bullshit them some more! Lol its fun! Try it. Once I made them wait like 20 min for some change. I feel like GOD at that point

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  • LcoolJ

    HOBO: "hey excuse me do you smoke?"

    ME: "YEAH i smoke tons im a chain smoker"

    HOBO: "oh ok... do you have an extra cigerate?"

    ME: "yeah i just bought a carton i dont know what im gonna do with them all"

    HOBO: "oh i see... may i have one?"

    ME: "LOL NO"

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  • no.1h8r

    If I bum a cig I offer compensation like a quarter or a dollar for like 4. Hey, I'm investing in your next pack! Go easy! lol

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    • wigsplitz

      A quarter wouldn't even cover the cost of 1 here! They're just over 50 cents apiece at $11 a pack. I'd take no less than $1.

      Way back in the early 90's, I remember a loosey in NYC was 25 cents-and a pack was like $2 then.

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      • davesumba

        and that's why I buy loose tobacco. Can't beat $2 for an ounce and an extra $1 for 60 quality rolling papers. I actually want people to come bum a cig off of me so that they don't go to waste, and they're only a nickel a piece.

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        • wigsplitz

          I tried loose tobacco for a while but I don't like it. If I'm going to destroy my body by smoking then by God I'm going to enjoy the flavor! I only like Newports, nothing else compares. I usually get mine out of state at about $4.50 a pack which is more than fine by me, but it's the principle...I mean, as far as anybody knows I paid $10 for them so it's quite rude to try to bum, ya know?

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  • wigsplitz

    I don't encounter many, if any, around me. The WORST here is people asking for cigarettes. I yell at people when they ask me, I let them have it. Well, usually what happens is, they ask and I say sorry, no. Then they proceed to whine and complain and beg and act like I'm being mean for not handing one over, and that's when I lay into them. It PISSES ME OFF!!!!!!!

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    • dappled

      The worst thing over here is that people ask for a "spare" cigarette, as if you're carrying one that you don't plan to smoke. You're just keeping it as a spare.

      Years ago, my friend got some imports from Lebanon. No offence to the Lebanese but these things were rank. It was like ammonia mixed with vomit. None of us could get through them but I bought a pack anyway. And I used it as behavioural therapy. If people were nice in their asking, they got a nice cigarette. If they weren't nice, I went Lebanon on them.

      One guy asked me very rudely at a bus stop and half-way through, actually had to go behind the bus stop to vomit loudly. I'd urge everyone to carry Lebanese cigarettes. Not because I hate pan-handlers (I really don't), but just because rude people need to be punished. And it also helps the Lebanese economy.

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      • sexysonofsam

        Dude you have the right idea, I almost pissed myself whilst reading your "Therapy", serves the fucking useless fucks right!

        I say fuck them, nobody gives me handouts, why should I?

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      • wigsplitz

        Oh, and they ask if you have an "extra" cigarette here! I think the same thing as you, how is there a such thing as an "extra"??

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        • howaminotmyself

          People usually offer a handful of pennies and ask to buy them, as if that does me any favors.

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          • wigsplitz

            lol, yeah!! I've got that before. Next time that happens, I think I'll say "sorry, I'm not licensed to sell tobacco in this state".

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      • wigsplitz

        That's funny!

        Here cigarettes are upwards of $10 a pack so they are not cheap, I find it incredibly rude that people have the nerve to even ask! I guess it's the bum's way though, why pay for it if there's a chance to get it free.

        I like your idea but I might try something real cheap. I'm trying my hand at growing tobacco this year and apparently it's just plain rank if you don't cure it. So maybe I'll carry around a few uncured rolled leaf cigars to hand out. Good thing around here is people know everyone so they shouldn't ask more than once.

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    • howaminotmyself

      I have a friend who says "yes, but you can't have one because they are mine"

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  • Gumdrop4

    I don't think its right to just suspect that they'll just go buy beer and ciggs. And Hell, if they are.. you're still helping them. Its just about being a good person. And what kind of person are you if you just suspect thats what they'll do. A dollar or 2 won't hurt you. But I prefer to give food out.

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    • I tried to give food out three different times. They refused each time!!!!!!
      Fuck the homeless. They're there because they WANT to be there. ANY homeless person can go to their nearest shelter ONCE A WEEK IF THEY LIKE, to go get
      1. A Shower/shave
      2. food
      3. clothes/shoes

      but do they bother?
      Well, why bother when you can get high instead?

      At one point I THOUGHT I felt sorry for them, but not after I got to know some of them. Sure I didn't meet EVERY SINGLE HOMELESS PERSON OUT THERE, but I did get a good idea of their overall mentality.

      One time, I was suckered into "loaning" a homeless dude $5.
      I bugged him for two weeks to pay me back.
      When he reluctantly obliged, HE PULLED OUT A WAD OF MONEY BIGGER THAN ANY IVE EVER SEEN IN MY LIFE!

      FUCK THE HOMELESS.

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  • thegift

    Here's my business model:

    I give them some change in my pocket and hook them up with Crack rocks. Once they are addicted it is my turn to collect money from them.

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  • Nokiot9

    I live and work downtown so I get hit up a hundred times a day for $ and smokes. I almost always refuse or wear my headphones so I don't have to. But if I see someone who is genuinely handicapped, or has a child, or is making something (ie: Palm crosses/figures, window washes, playing music) I'll give em something. It bothers the hell out of me that people think asking a perfect stranger for their personal property. I usually say "change comes from within" when someone asks me for it. Or I'll say "my name isn't bro" then they say "idk your name" then I say "then why the FUCK would you ask me for money?"

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  • MasterOfWaffles

    I give them drugs since that's probably what they were going to buy.

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  • blueglobe_

    I was driving my car to school one day and I saw a man in front of the local Church's Chicken wave a sign saying that he needed $5 to feed his young daughter. I gave him $2, as that was the only cash I had on me. He shook his head and told me that this was not enough, that he needed $5. Ungrateful piece of shit.

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  • I usually dont give them the money myself, who knows what they will use it for after all?

    I politely ask them what kind of liquor they would like then I go and get it for them.

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  • Legion

    The worst kind of Bum is the ones who have the signs "Will work for________ (Food, cigs, booze, etc.), yet if you ask them to work, they tell you no. If thats the case, then fuck you!

    A friend of mine was approached by a bum wanting a pack of cigarettes, said he was willing to work for it. My friend had a whole carton and told him, "How about I give you the whole carton?" The bum was like really? then my friend was like yeah, and hands him some tire shine and a rag. If you shine the wheels on the van, you can have the whole carton. The bum then hands the tire shine and rag back and says, "Fuck you, I ain't your Nigger!", calls him a racist, and other nasty things. The bum goes to his friends and tells them, "this man wants me to be his boy!" They approach and my friend tells him "I told him he could have a carton of smokes if he shines my wheels". they curse him, and my friend tells them "No work, no fucking smokes!" and drives off.

    (BTW, The use of the word Nigger isn't to be racist, its what the Bum said.)

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  • Legion

    I usually don't have any myself, but if I do, I may give depending on how nice they ask,if i am not needing to buy something (like food!),and if i am not wanting a soda. If a charity finds me first, though, they win. I almost always give to charity when I can.

    Funny signs may earn a bum more.

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  • badboy82

    I always tell em if they cant afford to smoke how are they ever gonna pay thier hospital bill when they get cancer. and walk off. although i always cary pipe tobacco as well and offer them a little bit of that but only if they have rolling papers lol.

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    I ignore them or tell them that I do not have any money on me.
    Reason being is that I do not normally carry cash, but when I do, it is more than $20 or so dollars (which, to a broke person like me, is a pretty sizeable amount). Usually it is after I have cashed a check or made a withdrawal and need to pay a bill (my insurance bill needs to be paid in cash) and my fear is that they will see the money in my wallet and
    A) Be dissatisfied with the small amount that I am giving them and ask for more
    *Get violent if I do not oblige and then it turns into a mugging
    B) Mug me later
    C) Tell their friends and they mug me

    I've given them money before (out of fear, mainly, I live in the city and when they seem very desperate, I am not taking my chances), but for my own safety, I try to avoid them or tell them I don't have anything. Either way, I could get mugged but I'd prefer not to give them motivation to do so (seeing my money).
    In general, I do not like to whip out my wallet in public, save for when I am in front of a cashier. You're just begging for it then.

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  • swordfish

    i go out of my way and go buy them food, like from the dollar menu or something. then they don't have to go buy it or make a tough choice as to what to do with the little money they have. also, I saw a tv show where a heroin addict fully funded his addiction by panhandling. people thought they were helping someone when really he was just buying drugs with it. i never give them money.

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  • Flowers

    Up til now, I've always ignored homeless people, and still do, but each time I feel pity when I look at them poor souls...

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  • Ms.Caffinated

    I was talking to a hobo today, -he was so nice! lol- and I was like, "Honestly dude imma give you the money regardless, I just want to know, What are you planning on buying?" I gave him a dollar, "Well miss, I find I really can't stand dollar burgers anymore, so i was trying to get 4 more dollars to buy a Subway sandwich :D" AWW!! I couldn't help it, I have him 3 more dollars lol he was like, "Thank you ma'am! Can i give you a hug?" I didn't really have a say in that because he already draped a shoulder over me and smiled. I'm happy that i made his day :D

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  • Jjinxa

    i feel sorry for homeless people. more often then not they have other issues like addiction, abuse, neglect and mental health issues.

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  • I never give to the homeless because 99.99% of the time they're going to use the money to go get drunk or get high.

    If you want to give, give the money to charity. They more than anyone else can help them.

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  • Ms.Caffinated

    I believe in Karma :D -that and I'm a nice person, who always assume they are going to buy something to eat lol- If they ask really quickly and don't seem interested or greatful, just the change on the bottom of my purse. If they seem embarrest or they look like they need it, $1 and the change. If they come up happy and make conversation and are nice $2 and some change. Either way i always give, becuz i'm not that strong and if they get mad i didn't give them money, they may try to steal my purse :( That would be NO Bueno!! lol

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  • chezycheze

    I say no and walk away. I don't know if this is the best thing to do but I know there are soup kitchens and churchs that help whoever is in need so I just give to them instead. Plus, I don't want to be giving them cash to go buy booze or illegal substances.

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  • I give them $1.

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  • icanhascheezburger

    I ignore them, here I've seen the same ones get dropped off by a van everyday..

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  • CeeCeeTheGreat

    I Would most likely yell, Only because of the fact that there is a such thing AS WORKING.. DOESN'T MATTER YOUR SITUATION OR LIVING CONDITIONS, THERE ARE JOBS OUT THERE!!! if you really wanted a job you could get one.. Only my opinion though.

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  • 4392Moron

    If I came across any homeless in my country I would tell the fucken sons of bitches to get off of their lazy asses and seek some sort of employment. Even if it is at a fast foods dump or anything else. Something to keep their fucken lazy asses moving.

    I am a proud Canadian and we do not have homeless people here in Wellington. Employment for everyone.

    Maybe you fucken Americans have homeless people because of all of the fucken Niggers and illeagle ailiens you have in your country that demands every drop of your fucken Welfare and there is not much left to help the homeless be able to get on their feet again and find life.

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    • imtherealmattlewis

      Damn brother! That's right! FUCK CANADA! Id move there but I'm not a pussy.

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      • 4392Moron

        And may I ask where you reside, what country? By the sounds of your remarks to me you sound American, but maybe I am incorrect. I think you do not like Canadians because we are too out spoken, we state how we feel on things and you do not care for that. It is not the fact that you are a pussy to me it is the fact that you cannot stand the thought of Canadians being so ulitmatly cool. And in closing my friend, please note that my gender is FEMALE. Canadians are proud of their nationality and we do not care to have any kind of riff-raft come staggering in. We will except Blacks and other races but they have to have a good degree and be able to support some goodness and not just suck off of our government like in the States and maybe some other countries. If you are an American, I think that you are mad because your country is going to heck in a hand basket and Canada is prospering.

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  • Punch them in the face and light a $20 bill in front of them...

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    • thanksforthefreecar

      You can go to jailvfor that you knwo?

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