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Simply put, if you're into a guy, what's your way of showing it?
| Tell him/make a move | 26 | |
| Act flirtatious around him | 40 | |
| Let him know via proxy (have a friend mention it, ect) | 11 | |
| I don't; I wait for him to make a move | 45 | |
| Other (Add a comment) | 8 |
Hold eye contact for more than 4 seconds, then you know he's into you too :o)
I act like a punk to the guy I like... But that could be just me ;) Good luck though...
I get to know him first, become a friend, then gradually amp up the physical contact (sitting closer, hand on his arm when I say something to him, let the hugs linger a little longer, etc.) and then if he responds well, eventually go in for a kiss at the right moment.
I used to let guys know when I liked them by just coming right out and asking them on a date. Of course you'd have to get to know them first by talking a little. But in HS I was the victim of a mind game with a guy who I openly admitted that I liked, asked him out and was taken for a ride. He was so flattered. His ego became huge, and he even went around bragging that I was "sooo in love with him!". It didn't really matter to me that he was flattered. If anything, that was great! But he made it out to be almost like a joke when he lost interest in me when a new girl came along.
Now, whenever I like a guy I remember that same merry go round ride back in HS and get cold feet every time. I will wait for the guy to make the first move, unless the intense feeling becomes so unbearable that I spill the truth to him regardless. Until then, I usually tell everyone(almost everyone; my friends) but him that I like him. And usually when hes around I get quiet, I'm nervous, and awkward. My hands sometimes shake, and I find myself looking at him a lot(staring). Sometimes if I get a feeling he doesn't feel the same I become really cold, and try to not pay much attention to him. I kinda become rude, and get really tense and depressed.
I don't know, its a little confusing and hard to explain. Every time is a little different than the last, I guess.
laughs at his jokes (even if they're not that funny); more hands on contact (even without realizing it); remains in close vicinity of said guy in hopes that he talks to her;
I just talk to them a lot. I don't make a move and don't expect them to. I just want to get to know them and if they want to get to know me as well, I think it's a mutual feeling. I don't go out of my way to make it known. I just like the relaxing conversation with someone about one another.
If it leads to something more.. cool. If not.. it was worth my time.
I don't, I'm too awkward to let a guy know I'm into him. So he makes the move or nothing happens.
I know, I know, but I'm getting less awkward nowadays.
I will try to make plans with him, take him wine tasting (or fill in the blank) and just be myself,
My friend needs this help, lol. This guy obviously has a thing for her, but he creeps her out :P.
I've given up on guys making the first move. Most of the guys I date are KINDOF shy and "gentlemen" so I always have to go in for the kiss first. ;) but i don't mind.
I just hang out with him and talk to him. i dunno, usually i'm not the one that has to do that. But that IS what i do.
if your liking a dude just tell them or make a move.
cut the bullshit most guys would rather not deal with it
I always tell wonderful guys they are wonderful, whether I want them or not.