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Is it normal to not know whether you are in love or not. Can you get confused when distinguising love with really really liking someone you have been with for a year??
Aparently you know when you are in love
You are in love when you can accept even the smallest flaw in a person unconditionally.
You are in love when you: pathologically, compulsively can't stop thinking about a person, are obsessed with him/her, wish to see him/her like the person is an addictive drug, your sleep patterns will degrade, you will not be able to follow complex tasks, you will be absent minded, you will think of the person who you are in love with to have unrealistic outstanding properties, you will be forced to ignore any logic and argument against a relationship with that person, your perception will change profoundly, you will feel drugged and agitated all the time, if you are male you will be threatened by rival males, you will want to attack your rivals, you will feel the need to impress her with your qualities, you will think only of her if you masturbate, you will live the worst agonies in any moment that lasts longer than approximately 10-15 minutes in which you can't have contact with the person, you will ignore all reason, you will be facing insanity.
Otherwise you are not in love.
that´s obsessive possessive infatuation. Im in love with a girl right now and do not even think of masturbating with her. If anything I would think of just being with her and seeing her smile at me. Corny, I know, but love is corny. You´re obsessed.
Sir, either you are a troll, or I must suggest that your girlfriend get a restraining order.
That's like saying love is when she tries to leave you, and you tie her up in your closet and leave her there so SHE CAN NEVER EVER LEAVE YOU.
I feel most of what your talking about, man its like you read my mind! I feel insane and sometimes i think im crazy. I thought it was unhealthy. I cry alot over him because i so desperately want to be with him. He is always on my mind and sometimes ihate it but what can a girl do.
Thats not love, its twisted, seriously... i would not want you to be in love with me, I'd be scared.
These all sound over the top. It makes sense for the beginning, but I'm sure these feelings calm down when you have know eachother for long.
"you will think only of her if you masturbate"
C'mon man that's bullshit, when I was in love I did not want to masturbate at all. It's weird, it's like I had too much respect for the girl I was in love with to masturbate whilst thinking of her. Maybe it's just me, but I don't think you're right. I think what you described was not love, it was infatuation.
well, your dick's standing all the time but u don't wanna fuck. u are protective of her, calm, and very upbeat about or around them