How do you know if you are a lesbian or maybe bi?

if u like men and women ur bi, if u like tits, ur a lesbian

do a little experimenting, it's okay to be a bit scared, but just do it and THEN you can judge waht you are

All females compulsively compare themselves to others to see how they measure up, it's just something we do. I think that when you view someone as attractive, it isn't always sexual, it can be admiration.

It sounds like you are not quite sexually mature yet, it doesn't have anything to do with age, just hormones. You're discovering who you are as a person, it takes a while...

If you look at a girl and you want to do sexual things with her, you are most likely a lesbian. It it's just curiosity, you're probably straight.

Hope I helped...

Research has suggested that it is quite normal to have homosexual tendencies it is just whether or not we choose to act on them - personally (and I am aware that I am in a minority here so I hope I don't offend anyone!!) I don't think anyone is born gay but rather that we are all born with an impulsive attraction to both sexes although generally we will find the opposite sex more attractive. If you don't think you are bi/lesbian then stick with guys - experimenting can often do more harm than good! But rest assured it is normal.

your a horny bi girl, you just need to lick some pussy then you'll like it

Seeing someone naked doesn't equal to having sex. I'm sure almost everyone have seen someone else naked, mostly girls have seen other girls when changing clothes.
Look, i'm a lesbian and i can definitely find a guy pretty if I ever spot one, but that's it. Finding someone from the same sex beautiful doesn't mean that you're gay. Many women check out other women because of what they're wearing, wishing to have their hair, their nose, their eyes...
If you're sure that what you experiencied with that guy was just one bad experience, and if you have no desire to be with a girl then what's bugging you?

It may just be they are a bad kisser. Maybe try kissing someone you are attracted to. There is also things called Fetishes. You might just be a fetish person which is more about the thing/act not the person.

I'm guessing you're young, I used to wonder about other girls bodies compared to mine. Like if their bodies look like mine or if they feel similar to mine. It doesn't mean you're bi. If you felt attracted then I say maybe, and kiss someone you're attracted to, guy or girl, it makes all the difference

Considering you don't seem attracted to females, just curious about them I would say you are not a lesbian nor are you bi. You are either straight or asexual, depending on whether or not you are sexually attracted to guys.

Hi-- you said you don't want to make out with a girl... but are still thinking you are lesbian? We've made out now :( Do you think we are lesbian? or bi? http://isitnormal.com/story/iin-that-two-girl-bffs-like-to-make-each-other-horny-and-make-out-146418/?n=y

you are completely straight did girls turn you on NO...so what are you thinking about!! your lesbian because sometimes you wonder if her boobs are smaller or bigger than yours and if she has shaved down there!!! that's funny sweety this is less than normal the NOT normal thing is that your wondering if you are normal!!! and u are jumping and say lesbian (not bi!!) you are completely straight little girl...

You could also be a lesbian if you like very female guys like Robert Pattinson...

You're not gay. If you were a lesbian you wouldn't be comparing other woman to yourself.

If your wondering try it but if you don't want to stop thinking =D I wondered tried it and liked it!

i feel the same:) and i think its normal, trust me your not alone :)

I wouldn't say you are a lesbian or bi you are just curious because of your lack of experience.

try it?

Trust me your not a lesbian. If you were you would know. I'm a lesbian and I am VERY attracted to women. When I see a girl I like I do have sexual thoughts about them sometimes. Your not a lesbian for being curious about your boob size or girl stuff like that. If you were a lesbian or bi you would know. If you have to ask, then your not. lol its totally normal to be curious about that stuff. :)

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T SSweetie my first kiss was nasty too. Its normal to compare ufself to other girls... but if ur still not sure give dating a
rest till college and then explore ur options... i assume your a reeen?

That is exsaclly how I use to feel i was attractive to hot guys but was currious about girls so i decided to kiss a girl and i liked it just as much as a guy. So I became Bi and I love having the Best of Both Worlds in One:)
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I feel curiouse, I have a huge crush on a guy and had bf in the past but I'm curiouse as u and I have a plan to find out without losing my virginity I think...

If you don't compare to other women then you're a lez. So you're probably not.

it is completely normal to have sexual ideas or feelings toward both genders but just because you kissed a guy and you didnt feel anything doesnt mean you dont like men. remember, if your young, your curious about these things.

It's normal if you gagged when you kissed a guy you where not attracted to. If you where a lesbian and you kissed a girl you where not attracted to you would gag, simply because you just don't find them sexualy attractive. Mabye it's better just to be friends if there fun to be with. It's ok to be curious. It's natural. I doubt if your a lesbian if you don't want to see a girl naked.

Toodeloo.

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ur deff. not a lesbian becuse yu obviously like guys; ur juss curious thats normal;; when yu done with boys and want to be with yours girls you;ll know it

I'm gonna say that that does NOT make you a lesbian

No that doesn't make you a lesbian its only when you are in a relationship with a female that you become a lesbian you are more bi curious. Which means you are curious about girls in a sexual way. Like what they look like down there or boobs.

I think it's ok. Humans are sexual beings and it's ok to have those thoughts and feelings. Personally I believe that everyone has had those thoughts in their life but they were too afraid to admit it.

It might just be the guy. If you're young it's normal to experiment too. I'm straight but I have kissed a girl before but I would never do anything else 'cause it just doesn't appeal to me at all. I say try kissing a couple realy hot guys.

You give no idea of your age so kinda hard to give a precise answer. I am guessing you are a teen and that being the case, you are quite normal. It is your hormones running riot. Don't worry about your kissing experience. Some people just cannot kiss full stop. Happens to both sexes to. You sound level headed so I doubt you'll get 'bullied' into something that isn't right for you.
Good luck.

Yes it is quite normal

I hear of a lot of college girls experimenting with each other sexually. If you are not a lesbo you probably won't do it again.

Just find a guy you really like. Then kiss him.

Hay try a three sum the one who give you the be orgasm is the one for you. It still don't mean your gay.

You can't make a dissuasion on a first kiss. A real kiss will put you on cloud nine and you'll never forget it. Kissing is very sensual when done well

thats the problem with female you gals dont have a flesh compass like men do hopefully ur bi wouldn't that rock