How do you know a guy has strong feelings/is in love with you?

he texts and calls you all the time making plans 29
he does unexpected things (buys you gifts, writes you a poem) 52
he stares into your eyes, smiling a little 69
Other (Add a comment) 41
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  • after the sinking he lets me lie on the xtra large board while he hangs about dying in the frozen sea, now thats love

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    • thebird

      Or you ask him about it and he gives you a answer

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  • SoccerStud88

    he sticks his penis in your mouth

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    • pixie_dust

      don't say that, bcuz desperate and impressionable young 'tards might do that to get love.

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    • KokoroComplex

      Pfft, haha! I love how blase that sounded :P.

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      • SoccerStud88

        wtf is blase o.0

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        • KokoroComplex

          Uninpressed or indifferent- or kind of casually, lol.

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    • tikiman163

      Genius! Nice joke. But serious don't do that just to see if he loves you girls. Plenty of guys don't care if they love you if they can get head. Not the majority, but plenty.

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  • AngAnders112

    I find the voodoo doll of me that he's made out of strands of hair from my brush

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  • KickTheDog

    His heart pounds like an anvil and his brain is overflowing with stupid hormones just when he sees a photo of you.
    Jump off a cliff. If he catches you then he loves you.

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  • graphic_nature

    He would drop everything if I needed him.
    He trusts me.
    He helps me when I ask.
    He teaches me new skills.
    He listens instead of yells.
    He laughs at my jokes and cares about my opinions.
    He loves my habits and quarks that would annoy others.
    He shops with me even though he hates shopping.
    He always includes me in his plans.
    He never talks down about me to friends or family.
    He appreciates everything I do for him big or small.

    I could probably go on but I think I got the main point down. It's not about what he buys me or what his body physically does when he's around me. It's about compatibility and the little things.

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    • totally agree. looks like you just described my relationship with my partner!

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    • sillygirl77

      What you said is my answer too!

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  • joybird

    He just wants to ensure that you are happy.

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  • disthing

    He explodes. Literally. His internal organs are expelled violently outward at the sight of you. That means he loves you.

    Is he still intact? Then he don't give a damn!

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    • pixie_dust

      Wtf??? Lol

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  • KeddersPrincess

    The last guy that was smiling and staring into my eyes somehow ended up dead. I didn't even know he was dead until I was washing the blood off my hands.

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    • regisphilbin

      rofl

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  • 41ph4m413

    he doesnt kick you out of his apartment after hes done fucking you

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  • pixie_dust

    it's hard to give a scientific "formula" to know whether or not he's got it bad for you. however, if you hang around him with your friends, they should be good ones to ask.

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  • spacemonkeys21

    Potential signs but holes in it
    1: Takes time to text you but can also be doing that with another girl right after he just texted you
    2: He buys you stuff without you asking but he can be trying to buy you out
    3:Startes into your eyes and smiles so he takes time to not look at ur tits, ass but instead into your eyes, most innocent part you got and right after seeing into you he likes what he sees and smiles with comfort and joy WINNER!

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  • mrs.apple

    he tells you..duh

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  • EccentricWeird

    He prods me in the pink sink.

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  • 62704

    He loves you when you're in a relationship and don't speak for three years and he's still your boyfriend.

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  • wigsplitz

    keeps trying to do stuff with you-asks you to go to events with you. If you say you're stressed out, he offeres a massage. Or he outright just says so. Alsays telling you how hot you are, etc.

    He'l also make fun of your current or former bf to make himself look better. "oh, I'd never cheat on you....I'd always bring you flowers, I'd always pay, I have a car".....so on.

    TBH, that crap is creepy. Well, at a young age anyway. After your second divorce, it's cool.

    I's like he uses things to get a girl, rather than knowing who he is and haing any kind of personlaity. That important stuff comes with time.

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  • xladysativa

    probably the more sheepish they are about it the more likely they are to have feelings. guys are weird there's really no sure-fire way to tell unless they use their words.

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  • Doodlebrain

    Yeah it's probably really different for everyone. I wouldn't do either 1 or 2, I'm too afraid I'd look like a stupid mango. 3 is probably what I'd do, and also talk to them more than I usually would. (Also catching a sneaky glimpse down the top when they're not looking.)

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  • justanothersheep

    Other - There's no way to tell until you've been together for a while and you can both say it and mean it.

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