How do you initiate edging in sex?

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I've heard that a good technique to last longer in sex is edging, where you start thrusting until you're about to cum, then you stop until the feeling goes, then you start again, etc. But how are you supposed to just stop thrusting in the middle of sex? Wouldn't the girl wonder why you've stopped? Doesn't stopping negate the whole point of wanting to last longer anyway? Wouldn't she be disappointed that you've stopped when it was just getting pleasurable? And how do you even initiate it? This is the only scenario that I can imagine:

*You're both having sex*
You: Stop! Don't move!
*She looks nervous*
Her: What's wro-
You: Wait...
*A couple minutes pass with a strange look on her face*
You: Ok, I'm good, let's go

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  • Indigo1
    5 years ago

    You take you dick out, You rub it on her clit, kiss on her, change positions, kiss her hoo ha , all that good stuff, just get creative.. woman find pleasure in many parts of sex besides penetration, when you wanna edge it, you do one of those things for a minute or so in a smooth transitional way, sometimes it doesn't take long to edge it either, even a slowing down a bit before you get all hot and heavy will help

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    • JellyBeanBandit
      5 years ago

      But what if continuing to do anything would set you off, so that you couldn't just do foreplay stuff instead? You just need to take a break for a minute. How do you do that in a smooth transitional way?

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    • Indigo1
      5 years ago

      ALSO relax your legs when you're having sex and keep your thoughts focused in another direction, those will both help you last longer too

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    Why don't you actually talk to your girlfriend about this?

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    • CozmoWank
      5 years ago

      He'd have to get one first.

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      • RoseIsabella
        5 years ago

        Woo!

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  • curious-bunny
    5 years ago

    The him up. Jerk him or suck him or ride him and stip when he's aboyr to him. Simple really

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  • SKDM007
    5 years ago

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  • SKDM007
    5 years ago

    well you simply take your penis out of the vagina when you feel something about to happen and continue foreplay or oral sex before goin back in

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    • JellyBeanBandit
      5 years ago

      But what if she's like "Dude, what are you doing? Don't stop!"

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      • SKDM007
        5 years ago

        then ask her "do you want quick sex or long lasting sex with different forms of sexual activity?"

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        • JellyBeanBandit
          5 years ago

          Yeah but then arguing during sex isn't sexy.

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          • SKDM007
            5 years ago

            well then forget about edging and just cum, then she doesnt have the right to complain

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Why not just start spelunking? That involves edges.

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