How do you have freaking good intercourse? (for her anyways)

Easy question yeah? Way I see it, sex wasn't designed for guys. I'm sorry but it just wasn't. Which is damn sad coz we're the ones that can spray jizz on demand.

But so fate would have it men have to hold such urges back until the girl is well and done, then you can relieve your load. Where exactly is to your own discretion. The problem with this is it's really never a guarantee she's gonna climax. Granted there are some sex titans out there and the gods so do bless thee, but I'm really looking for general input from anyone.

But I guess I'm not really talking about climaxing (few people know the difference between a faked one and a real one anyways making that bit of advice n/a). I wanna know what makes her flip her sh* during the act.

You've both gotten the foreplay outta the way. Your Johnny's as hard as a math exam, she's on like a light switch. What happens next?

Clearly you do not just jack hammer away like bunnies (although dolphins are the only other species that have sex just for fun besides humans...) What's the difference between strokes that'll destroy her sanity and one's that'll get her to fake an orgasm?

I mean there's shallow and deep strokes, fast and slow, Ones where you pull it all the way out and ram it in and others that vary in short quick bursts and no doubt plenty of others that I don't even know exist yet.

But assuming you've done the foreplay right, when in the act and the guy's in a position of dominance, how does he make the girl's head spin around?

See I could just have asked is it normal that I've never made a girl cum before.
"Sure dude! Half the girls here have never even tasted an orgasm before anyways! Totally normal!"
See that doesn't exactly solve the problem though as much as it may repair a piece of my ego.

Agreed many girls have difficulty climaxing but ironically not as many fail when they're riding on top for instance which leads me to believe that the majority of the time it doesn't happen, it really is a guys inexperience to blame.

Please note; I'm totally open to girls (especially girl's) take on the matter. It's just hard addressing such a question keeping both genders in context.

Long deep teasing slow strokes do the trick 13
Long deep and hard fast stokes 10
Deep quick short strokes will do it 7
gyrating your hips make for the best sex 4
So long as there's a steady rythm 7
Other (Comment please) 4
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  • disthing

    There's no magic one-size-fits-all technique - not all guys and girls are the same, like the same things, have the same proportions, cum as easily.

    Best just to work it out with each new partner.

    If you're having issues making her enjoy it intensely, be willing to try different positions, try clitoral stimulation during intercourse, try longer sessions of foreplay, try asking her what she'd like or letting her show you - let her go on top, take control.

    And then, if after everything, you still can't make her cum, continue foreplay after sex until she does.

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  • limp.left.nut

    Heres what you do; you lay her down and ask
    "hello there what can i get you today?..oh dick? sure thing, how would you like your dick? (give her option e.g Deep and fast? teaser? just the tip?) and treat it as a game..

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  • Nokiot9

    Yeah. I always make sure my girl comes. Before me if I can get it, it's rude as hell to leave someone hanging. I'm bi. And in my exp. men are way way easier to get off than women. But most women CAN get off contrary to popular belief. It's just a matter of determination and multi tasking. If u can pat ur head, rub ur belly, and whistle row row row ur boat at the same time, you can probably make a woman orgasm lol. Probably. But designed for men? No. You definitely got the short end of the genetic stick with difficult orgasms, pregnancy, periods, ect. But I'm sure sex feels just as good for women as it does for men.

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  • (s)aint

    First of all: Don't stress her, it´s frustrating for me when a guy focuses ONLY on making me orgasm. Focus on making it a pleasurable experience for both of you and ask her what she likes.
    I thought sex was nice up until I lived out my fantasies, then it turned INCREDIBLE ...

    But a guide: Not all women can even orgasm through only vaginal stimulation. I either orgasm during the foreplay or during but if during I have to stimulate clitoris whilst he fucks me.

    And it's easier for a woman to orgasm if she masturbates and knows which technique works on her. It wont break the moment to ask whats he wants in bed because that's VERY different depending on which girl you ask.

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  • CountessDouche

    Alright...this is going to be some crazy, graphic, insane information, but I'm going to lay it on you.

    First, what you wanna do is grab her...and then, here's where it gets crazy...

    You look deep into her eyes....and then you....just fucking ask her wtf she likes in bed.

    It's not that fucking hard.

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    • derpyderp

      :0
      Men don't ask for directions!

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      • CountessDouche

        You'll get them whether you like it or not :|

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      • Nokiot9

        Men dont ask for directions Lol. A vagina is like a combination lock. You can fiddle around with it for hours and not unlock its secrets because every woman is different. Every woman likes different things in different places at different speeds, pressures and times. Sexually picky' doesn't even come close to encompassing it.

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    • Look. Sometimes babes just want the guy to know what they want. Better still, they'd like them to do what they wanna do with them and still love it. Take the submissive for instance. She won't wanna act like she's a little whore but she'll wanna be treated like one as far as sex is concerned.

      It takes away the fun for her if you act the way you do just 'cause she told you to.

      If she's still sober enough to yell out coherent instructions, then f*, I believe you're still not doing it right. Regardless of the instructions.

      Guys should just know this ish.

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  • TimmyTheTurtle

    stop using your small dick and let me hit it.

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    • Mazlow

      Between you and DumBellle... I dunno who's worse.

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      • TimmyTheTurtle

        we are obviously the same person... dumbass.

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  • Darkoil

    One technique is to try and have the clit be in contact with the base of your penis which can cause a clitoral orgasm so if your on top position yourself high. Or try and hit the front wall of the vagina with your penis to cause a g spot orgasm which means positioning yourself low and thrust upwards.

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    • Nokiot9

      Both of those require really steep angles of penetration. They're difficult to do for most people.

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      • Darkoil

        The latter is easier if you put a pillow underneath her bum/lower back so she is already at an angle ;)

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    • shuggy-chan

      Or just do butt stuff

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      • Yeah.... Not quite what I had in mind...

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  • blackbarbie

    I understand that a man may not always want to ask, but all men (and women) should observe their partner to learn what they appear to enjoy. I can't speak for all women, but speaking for myself I don't always like the same thing, not even in the same session. Some women fake arousal so you can't always tell by her face, but if she's getting wetter and opening more chances are she likes it. When you're with a new partner always start off slow and gradually increase depth - if she gets wetter as you go faster or deeper keep doing it. It's always best to start with oral because you can really see how she likes to be touched. I think most women will climax from clitoral simulation. That makes being positioned to the side with the man behind the woman a great position because you can put your hand between her legs and rub her clit while you're inside - just rub her in whatever way (upwards, downwards, both, circular motion, taps, etc.) she enjoyed while you ate her and you should be good. After being in that position for a while, turn her over to lay on her stomach and finish up from behind. Should be a great experience for you both. Just remember to follow the wetness I think most women respond quickly by getting wetter when it's good or dryer when it's not so good. Keep doing whatever makes her pussy the wettest. If you respond to that you'll be positioned to know her body better than she does. When a woman is really enjoying good sex we may not even know exactly what a man is doing, we just know it feels good. There are things that my husband has done that I would never have told him to do or even allowed if he asked. Then afterwards he laughs and tells me what he did and tells me how wet my pussy got while he was doing it and I pretty much can't argue with him so I let him do whatever gets my pussy wet and we have a great time at it. Watch and learn how her body reacts and you'll instantly know what she likes and dislikes.

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  • Nokiot9

    That's also why men are able to reproduce till they die. If they can get it up that is.

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  • Nokiot9

    There is a real reason why it's more difficult for women to come. You are more likely to ovulate when near or in orgasm, women have a limited # of eggs in their life. Men don't have a limited # of sperm. It's to make sure u don't eject all ur eggs before u pass on ur DNA

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  • Avant-Garde

    The sex has to be kinky.

    That is all.

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  • Morgan_Freeman

    Slow, hard, and deep.

    Narrated by Morgan Freeman.

    titty sprinkles.

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  • Coolgirl1012

    When ever I enjoy it I start swearing and I start doing it deep and fast

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  • Coolgirl1012

    I always dry hump the sofa

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  • PentacleRose69

    I say do it deep fast and hard. That always works for me but if you're unsure of how she likes it then just ask her.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Open your mouth and ask her what she likes and if that doesn't work, which it probably won't, open your mouth again and eat her out like a man!

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    • I'm not sure what kind of sex appetite you might have so you might not be able to relate to this. There're some instances where sex will just throw itself at you and it'll have to be done on the spot. May be in the back seat, in a toilet booth, in the nearest closet.

      So after you've torn a few buttons and broken a thong, stripping outta both your clothes and even though you know nothing about her she *will* expect you to know the game.

      I'm not saying that's the scenario I had in mind when I wrote this but there are some instances where it'll break the moment to ask questions, perhaps even be a little awkward and other moments where it should just be like tying a shoe lace. Where he's in charge of how it goes and she likes it anyways. Where you shouldn't have to talk.

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      • RoseIsabella

        If it's with a stranger and without a condom it's a good way to get AIDS!

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  • seekelp

    Math was my best subject.

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  • dom180

    Communicate with each other, y'know.

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    • EccentricWeird

      ATTEMPTING COMMUNICATION:
      GREETINGS HUMAN.

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    • Yeah, I do that a lot but don't you ever just feel it out?

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  • Ellenna

    Not true only humans & dolphins have sex just for fun - how about bonobos?

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    • Well they're primates too so yeah. In fact same can be said for almost all chimps to I guess. They're just so pug ugly that it wouldn't really look like... Wait.. Is that all you got out of all that I said?

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      • disthing

        She's right, though.

        It's not only humans (or primates) and dolphins who enjoy sex.

        That's a total myth.

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      • TheMightyOz

        That's all a demented person needs to get out of what you said. Haha.

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    • Asstastics

      Hahaha, bonobo porn. You are well demented. I like that.

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