How do you feel when somenone is attracted to your partner?

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I am interested in how you feel when someone of the same gender as you is attracted to your partner. Are you pleased that you have such an attractive partner or do you feel jealous?

I mean:

If you are a male, how do you feel when you are told or can see that another man finds your partner sexually attractive?

If you are a female, how do you feel when you are told or can see that another woman finds your partner sexually attractive?

pleased that I have such an attractive partner (I am male) 8
pleased that I have such an attractive partner (I am female) 5
jealous (I am male) 12
jealous (I am female) 10
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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    A little proud, a little jealous, and a little turned on.

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  • Mmmpfh
    11 years ago

    Pleased and slightly jealous. The "I'm keeping my eye on you" kind.

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  • Lynxikat
    11 years ago

    Although I've never dated anyone, it probably depends on the person that's attracted to your partner. If it's my partner's BFF, then I'd probably get jealous. If it's just some random chicks at the club or something, I might feel pleased that I picked an attractive guy... unless he's flirting with the chicks back.

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  • Bonnabell
    11 years ago

    I have not dated in awhile so I do not know. I think I would be very angry.

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  • Devyn
    11 years ago

    Pleased that I have an attractive partner. (didn't vote because I don't fit into either main gender)

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    • Lynxikat
      11 years ago

      Do you mind if I ask exactly what you label yourself as, gender-wise?

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      • Devyn
        11 years ago

        Gender confused, but not actively trying to work out gender.

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  • FussyCarrot
    11 years ago

    Well I am a female and some girls are crafty ass creatures just saying. So I feel that you can look/glance, but all that trying to make eye contact shit becase you think he's so sexy can get throw out the window. If you find him attractive great, so do I. Also, it's different for males and females.

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  • Mason554
    11 years ago

    I'm straight and I'm a boy I would not be doin a guy if someone were to flirt with my hot ass gf I'd kick there add (she's a super model)

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  • prasatko
    11 years ago

    Jealous. Sperm competition is not my favourite sport in which I would like to participate in my free time.

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