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What do you think about domestic discipline (being spanked as an actual punishment by your significant other when you do something wrong, with the purpose of it actually hurting so you'll want to correct yourself)? Have any of you ever tried it? (Comment if you have, and if you like(d) it or not!)
| I just like being spanked | 11 | |
| I think it's borderline abuse | 29 | |
| I think it's a great idea | 16 | |
| If it works for you, I guess... | 11 | |
| I think it's weird | 10 |
The whole thing sounds stupid. An adult is capable of correcting their own behavior without being treated like an abused child.
Only fun if disciplining them was in a sexual context.
Under any other circumstances, it would call for revenge.
I'm spanked by my husband, and I consent to it. He doesn't beat me or give me more than I can handle, and it corrects my behavior. I have the utmost respect for him and am treated like a queen.
It's up to the couple and their beliefs. In my house my husband was the leader or head of the house and I was taught to respect or accept his punishment which was a spanking.
Being spanked on bare bottom has always been a turn on, this has always led to much better sex. In fact is the main instigator in a heightened relationship.
By your significant other? That's a little strange. I wouldn't do it, but I can see where other people would dig it. Humans are weird.
If everyone is consenting and you make sure it's safe, why not? I can see why it would be fun as a game, but not all the time.
No its simply abuse. You might not realize this but your lover is not your child. There parents have a right to punish and raise them since that is the parents duty.
However when you grow up you are free to act as you wish as long as its in accordance with local law. The fact you believe your partner should give up everything they care about simply to please you means you need a new partner.
Why would you fuck your child? That is kind of twisted if you think about it. BTW its not BORDERLINE abuse its simply ABUSE. You might believe being abusive is normal but it isnt.
However if like others have brought up if you have some sort of arrangement like this that both you and your partner consent to that is perfectly acceptable. Randomly punishing your lover for not obeying every little whim though without prior consent is in fact Spousal abuse.
I would never condone any physical assertivness toward a wife---For certain things i have had my bare butt paddled by my wife--I had it coming it was consentual--no one else knows so it works for us---We may be one in a million----0things are always real good after a bare paddling has made things right--so it can work---I do not like it and it does hurt
When I do something I feel is wrong, I end up spanking myself. Sometimes I do it even when I don't do anything wrong.