How do shy guys act around a girl they like?

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Okay i posted my story before...
but afterwards, i notice he would walk around me alot, try to grab my attention, try to be around me. He thought it wasnt obvious but it is..

A week after, i came in and put my bag on the desk, to see him walking out of the room, the moment he looked at me he stood there, stammering kind of, pretending to look for something and then he just went back into the room.. like what does that even mean? Its like he's not inerested? Or am i making it up and he really doesn't like me. I wanna approach him, but one minute it seems like he likes me and then things like what happened today makes me wanna just give up.

I dont get it.

so please help me here,, what do you think is going on?

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  • GMAN
    12 years ago

    tell him you wanna suck his dick. then you'll know for sure

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  • redsoles
    14 years ago

    Okay i gave him a note instead......
    he seemed really happy

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  • nike
    14 years ago

    Don't play hard to get, if you like him let him know, if not don't play around with him.

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  • Duck_________
    14 years ago

    He's probably very self conscious. Try talking with him, BUT make sure the two of you are alone, if you're not, he will probably never say anything, I know I never did.

    Ask him to do something neutral (i.e. daytime), like get a coffee, or go to the movies, or something more fitting.

    I hope that helps.

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  • redsoles
    14 years ago

    You think?Hahah you motivated me
    so i will.
    say hi or something and ask him how is he and start a conversation from there...

    thanks1

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  • Jagjaguar
    14 years ago

    Approach him...Now! He obviously likes you from what I can tell. Some guys are just super shy around girls, especially if they like her. Trust me, sometimes I have trouble even making eye contact with girls Im attracted to, and I know how stupid that sounds. Have some friendly conversations but eventually youre going to have to make the first move if you feel good about it.

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  • omgalexalex
    14 years ago

    if its that obvious then he probably has girl problems. if you like him then just chat and if hes really nervous then hes not worth it. I like girls that i can just unload my thoughts on and they agree with me or that i find easy to talk to. I also like it when girls come on to me, it makes me feel good and lets me know their interested.

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  • Grace13
    8 years ago

    make eye contact with him but don't stare lightly smile when he sees you then look away if be begins to do this with you then he is interested and if not maybe he hasn't gotten the message yet

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  • Lonely2
    8 years ago

    Thete are body language cues but they take a real knowledge of the person to accurately read them....its easier to just tell a person you like them and ask them out

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  • Proudfear
    13 years ago

    he likes you, hes pretending to avoid looking at you so you wont notice he likes you, u ould talk to him burt if hes to shy he may deny it ad baisically run

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  • I'd-rather-not-say
    13 years ago

    I think urcdoing good not really coming on to strong not playing hard to get just keep kinda easing into it but maybe let him know u wanna be more than friends

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  • CupcakeLovesPoptarts
    14 years ago

    My Ex Fiance Was Like That,
    He Was Lovely

    Its Just The Quiet Ones You've Got To Look Out For

    </3
    cupcake

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  • FearFigment
    14 years ago

    With a shy guy the chances are slim that he'll approach you, the woman usually has to make the first move. Also when you walked into the room was it just you and him? If so it must have been really uncomfortable for him if he liked you; like he wants to leave before you realise he's shy/feeling awkward... idk that's just what I do and I know a lot of other shy guys who do the same.

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    • redsoles
      14 years ago

      Um there were a couple of people..
      this is a library llol...

      but why? Its like idk,, hes avoiding me i didnt really do anything lol?
      Hes avoiding me yet he still comes around..

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  • imjustme
    14 years ago

    wow well honestly i have no idea what he is doing. I think he likes you, but he may be a little unsure. talk to him have friendly coversations

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  • redsoles
    14 years ago

    how do u guys act ?
    shud i still approach him
    cuz im kinda scared too..
    i have NO idea wtf he is doing

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  • wannarocktheworld
    12 years ago

    flash him once.

    that'll tell you definitely if he's interested or not, shy guy or not

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