How do shy girls think?

some girl is always staring at me when we end up in the same room whether its lunch, the library, the halls, wherever it is. she just watches me and its kind of wierd. shes cute and all but i felt that if i talked to her it would get awkward fast because she doesnt talk much. she also hangs with all the shy girls who dont talk much. so my question is... is it normal that i cant tell whether i should talk to her or nawt yet???

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  • dappled

    Just talk to her. She obviously wants you to. If it gets awkward, ask her about herself. At least you'll be in a position to know whether you're compatible.

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  • tripw7

    You have some real good advise here. I know you want to treat her right or you wouldn't have posted. Be sure of course to talk to her alone. She will be much more comfortable. Good luck....

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  • Mersaphe

    I like the girls who are shy and good looking. Usually the shy girls don't realize how attractive they are. Therefore they're usually less bitchy.

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  • imadragon

    When she gets to know you she'll probably talk more. She might like you, do it. She is afraid to embarrass herself.

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  • coolio75650932

    My wife was a (FLUTTER)shy girl in middle school...but than in grade 8 we bumped into eachother (literally) on a field trip to the beach...we became fast friends(I became her first friend).than dated for a while than I proposed now im happily married with four kids...I SAY GO FOR IT!

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  • I feel very shy in math class when I am giving this girl I like answers, even though I am usually really quiet and not hyper. what could I do to get past a quiet part in the middle of a partner work with her?

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  • coreyknows

    You should give her a smile one day so she knows your into her, if you are. Then some other day when your ready to talk to her.. talk about whatever is going on. Dont say hi and just stare at her waiting for her reply.. that makes a shy person even more shy.. so at first dont give too much eye contact and ask or say something to her. take my advice, im a shy person myself

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  • I think it would be best if you get her comfortable first. I mean some guys love to just say hi, a couple sentences, then jump into the flirting, but I think you should casually talk to her for awhile. Another thing that I think is best is when you do talk to her, make sure you're alone. Shy girls are sometimes insecure and may think you're trying to play some sick joke on her..and being alone could also just simply take some pressure off of her. Unless she's one of those girls that are shy, but once some guys goes and approaches them they try to act all badass or something..If that's the case then I could care less on what you say to her..They're annoying..Lol.

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  • willis94

    Lol just walk up to her one day and ask how much a polar bear weighs, when they dont know u say " enough to break the ice". Works errytime :P

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  • ilovesuperman

    Most girls do that. Hehe cause I find myself doing that :) but I really think you should talk to her. I bet she will be really cool once you get to know her!!

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  • Ldizzy1234

    I'm shy when it comes to the guys that I like, and I kinda do the same thing. Pretty much just stare. So yeah, it sounds like she likes you. You should break the ice. Go talk to her!

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  • kitty_patrol

    Here's the thing. I'm shy at school, not a home tho I am really hyper And loud and fun so go for it

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  • Same with me, Its quite irritating because she keeps on staring at me and then when I look at her she tries to act like shes not doing it.

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  • Sweetz

    The quiets are kinks!

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  • pain123

    I agree with faceless

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  • buckman

    So just go sit with her at the library and ask her to help you find a good book. :) She'll open up, you're gonna have to put the moves on her until she gets comfortable enough! If she's shy she isn't going to go up to you, or kiss you first, or anything.

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  • nanimeow

    She will stop being shy when she gets comfortable with you...most likely.

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  • aliwashere0609

    do it! you never know unless you try, and if it gets awkward tell her it was nice meeting her and give her your number. there's never an awkward silence when your texting(:

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  • yea its normal. she shy so she probably gives off random signals and stuff. but she will never make the first move if she really does like you so go say hi one day or something.

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    • cupcake16

      ..did you just reply to your own question?
      "anonymous story author" ;P

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    • FearFigment

      Rofl nice one tool.

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    • aussiewolf

      why ask the question and then comment on it?

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    • Violet_Heart

      lol...?? did you find the answer by yourself? x3

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      • 1000yrVampireKing

        So many questions like this.

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    • love.love

      Embarrassing.

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    • Faceless

      Next time dont click the write anonymously box before you comment on your own shit. Silly. Other then that I dont even want to dispense my ingenious advice to you.

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