How do people have one night stands?

Maybe low moral standards on my part, but as long as you are both on the "same page" no harm done in THAT area (though I believe it harms many other aspects of you...yet, I've had many....at least in my younger days).

Usually, when people meet in a bar, it is often implicit that, if one asks the other if they want to go to their place (or other "suggestions"), then they're inviting you for a one-night stand. Mostly, one-nighters originate in bars/intoxication. For me, it was always awkward WAKING UP with a total stranger. FYI: If you do it, (and I'm certainly not suggesting that you do), the key is to leave or make sure they leave to avoid the waking up part. Geeeze! I can't believe I'm giving this advice. How bout this: JUST DON'T DO IT!

Sex, well, I guess it's a bit like masturbation, although it's with another person.
Love, now that's a different story.

basically you treat them like you would a boyfriend but just for one night - you wear a condom so you dont have to worry about disease, you make sure the guy isnt an immature asshole, if he is then yeah it will be awkward afterwards, if not you just say hi and smile when you see them like nothing ever happened, and for a girl turning into a booty call is as easy as calling the guy up again and asking him if he wants a repeat performance. Hope that satisfies your curiosity.

It's nice to read a young lady or someone that has morals. In a society as this many people might question you for this inquiry, it's sad and sick how people think.

Myself being a older male I don't have sex with anyone I don't share deep feeling with but that's me.

Never change yourself.

but hasnt everone done it? i feel like i am the only one out of everyone i know who has not had one.

It's just two people being horny.

Watch the jersey shore. They do it all the time. U

they meet, said hi... they kissing, they they got bang... 6 month after... congratulation you got AIDS..
moral of story : get safe sex with knowing your partner first

P.s I am a girl and I have had my fair share, some no big deal because it was with a friend, others a little awkward, but I find it fun because of the mystery behind each guy. Also i know what I just typed made me sound like a whore and gosh how I hate that but I've only had 8 sexual partners and well hell I just like sex and if a guy is game well then so am I.

it could be awkward
but it could be awesome too, it depends on the chemistry between the people involved

Bollocks.. There's some closed mind comments to this one..
A One Night Stand is exactly that, no more, no less..
It makes you no less of a person if you are a girl. More so really as you are rarer and have the strength to go along with it..
Bottom line men typicaly think about Sex, Sex, Sex, Sex, Sports, Sex, Beer, Sex, Sex.. (i think you see a recurring theme here).
Whilst women think of, Ghopping, Shoes, Wine, TV, Chatting, Fashion.. (and somewhere in there..) ..Sex.
Society praises men who sleep around as a Stud, yet if a Woman does she's a whore.. Bollocks, that's mend insecurities being put on a woman.
There's nothing Sexier than a woman with Confidence and stregth in herself. If she's looking so sexy, in a killer set of heels, stockings, miniskirt, cleavage etc and chats a guy up or looking for a one night stand.
As long as all parties are aware it's just sex and commit then there's no harm done and you should be proud of yourself, a lot of women wouldn't have the strength to see it through. I would snap you up straight away, at the end of the day, lifes a journey from A to Z, none of us know how long we've got. Its enjoying the journey that counts.. Let me know how you get on or if you need any help. master AT hotamateurteen DOT com. Good Luck and have fun!!!

Have you heard of condoms? Then carry them with you. Go to a club, bar, or concert and see someone tries to pick you up. I bet that they're looking for a one night stand

One night stands are often no fun. Party sex is much easier. You're at a party, you see a hot guy, you go into one of the bedrooms and you have sex. Then you come back out before all the food is gone. No wake up. No snoring. No ugly recriminations. Then if you see the guy again somewhere all the sex crap is out of the way and you can be serious.

I think your question is ment to sound holier than thou.

@Mando Exactly. That's the problem.

Sex nowadays "is only sex". It's just satisfying a bodily "need", not an expression of love. Morals are something of the past, today is all about enjoying yourself.

Myself, I think that's just sick and disgusting. I'd rather stay a virgin for the rest of my life than have casual sex.

I dont understand that and I am not curious.If I do it I will just not respect myself.Such things are for sluts

One night stands are terrible. It's shameful to yourself.

-Vin

Don't have a one night stand. They ARE awkward and takes a person of very low standards/morals to do it. You sound better than that.

It's much easier for some people to have one night stands than others. It's much easier for women than it is for men. For the most part no matter what she looks like a women can ask any man to have sex with her and they will. For men it can be more difficult. Being good looking helps but if you're willing to go trolling for gutter sluts you can increase your chances. The one night stand is one of God's greatest gifts to man kind. There's nothing like the feel of some "strange"

ONS are completely normal and extremely fun i dont understand how anyone would actually want to have a relationship

Craigslist is good for one night stands for man and women

One night i was drilling my girlfriend, when my doorbell rang, i went up to open the door naked, when i saw a hot slut near my door, she shaked her butt, feels my dick and says, "$100 for some hot action baby?", my girlfriend gets pissed off, shows a middlefinger to the slut and says, "he has no fucking time to waste his energy on stupid motherfucking bastards like u", and shuts the door loudly, OMG, the way she said it was awesome!!!

It depends on the persons open mindedness, Your personality of how you asked the question shows you'd be timid and it's not for everyone :)

Well a one night stand is no different then regualr sex, there is foreplay and then the penis ends up in the vagina or the ass or how ever you like it done. Easy enough answer and it only took me 35 seconds to type it.

I have had my fair share of one night stands and they can get complicated if you develop feelings but They can also be very enjoyable. The morning after doesn't have to be awkward. I'm married now so I don't do it anymore but it was a great time in my life and I wont ever forget it.

if you want we could have one so you can see for yourself :)

It's not near as fun as being with someone you have a real connection with. I say if you are curious, then try it if it happens. Otherwise don't worry about it.

sex must be mutually agreed on....if you can live with yourself after fucking a stranger then do it......otherwise stay aw\ay

I didnt have one-night stand and I am not going to.I have never been curious either that people are weak who have no mind.STD is future of such people

how to booty call:

send the following text between 12 and 2am-

"what are you up to right now?"

believe it or not, all the implications are there and they know just what's going on.

please make sure there's a mutual agreement that you're either totally unattached, or mutually accepting of something more should it happen... and STICK TO WHAT YOU SAY. if you agree to no emotions, just need a walking dildo, STICK TO IT and leave once emotions arise. failure to do so results in the classic Crazy Attached Chick Who Doesn't "Get" One Night Stands. If you agree that whatever happens, happens, go with that. But things get messy if you're not on the same page.

Nothing wrong with a few ONSs, people. It's sex. You make it emotional.

I had a one night stand, just once. It was horrible. I feel the same way, I can only have enjoyable sex with someone I care about. You feel like a piece of dirt the next morning because you know the other person just wants you to get the fuck out.

one night stands arnt awkward u just stick it in her ass then its over u get dressed and leave lol mans best friend

What a waste of cum.

Yea check out jersey shore. They will answer all your questions lol